Strap-on Dildos

A strap-on dildo allows for penetration for those who don’t have a penis—via a harness worn around the hips. This makes strap-on dildos and strap-ons popular for pegging, lesbian sex, and role-play. In this overview, you’ll find single and double strap-on dildos, strap-on harnesses, and large strap-on dildos. Check out the full selection of all dildos or read more about pegging in the blog post on what is pegging.

What is a strap-on dildo?

A strap-on dildo — also known as a strapon, strap-on, strap-on harness, or strap-on cock — is a dildo attached to a harness worn around the hips. This allows the wearer to penetrate without having a penis. The harness has adjustable straps that fit various body sizes. Double strap-on dildos and double strap-ons refer to a model where the wearer also wears an internal arm for self-stimulation. A vibrating strap-on dildo is a variant with a built-in vibration motor. “Pegging harness” and “strap-on harness” are English terms for the same combination.

Why are strap-on dildos popular?

Strap-on dildos give people without a penis the ability to penetrate. This makes them indispensable for lesbian couples, for pegging—where a woman penetrates a man—and for trans or non-binary individuals. The double strap-on dildo is popular because the wearer is simultaneously internally stimulated via the second arm. Large strap-on dildos are sought after for more intense penetration. The segment is growing rapidly, partly due to increased openness about pegging and gender diversity in sexuality.

Types and Variants

Single strap-on dildos with a harness

The basic version: a dildo attached to a harness. The wearer penetrates, the receiver is penetrated. The harness has adjustable straps for a secure fit. Available with dildos in silicone, TPE, and PVC. Check the maximum hip circumference of the harness before purchasing.

Double strap-on dildos

A double strap-on dildo has two arms: one external for the receiver, one internal for the wearer. The wearer inserts the internal arm into the vagina and is thus stimulated at the same time. Double strap-on dildo, double strapon, and double strap-on are the most commonly searched terms. The internal arm stimulates the wearer’s G-spot and vagina during penetration.

Strapless strap-ons

A strapless strap-on has no harness but is worn internally by the wearer via a bulb-shaped tip. There are no straps—the toy is held in place by muscle strength. This type requires some experience. “Strapless dildo” and “strapless dildoe” are variations of the same search term. Less suitable for beginners due to the higher risk of slippage.

Harnesses for your own dildos

Separate harnesses without a dildo are compatible with most vaginal dildos that have a wide base. The harness features an O-ring in various sizes for compatibility. “Strapon harness” and “dildo harness” are commonly used terms. This allows you to combine your own favorite dildo with a harness.

Large strap-on dildos

Large strap-on dildos are available in lengths of 20 centimeters and longer for those seeking maximum penetration depth. Fantasy strap-on dildos refer to large models with a non-realistic shape. Check whether the harness can support the weight of a large dildo—not all harnesses are suitable for the heaviest models. Also check out the XXL dildos.

What should you look for when buying a strap-on dildo?

Harness size: check the maximum and minimum hip circumference. Most harnesses are adjustable from 70 to 130 centimeters in hip circumference — but check this for each model. Dildo material: silicone is skin-safe and the best choice. Compatibility: if you’re buying a separate harness, make sure the O-ring fits the diameter of your dildo. Use plenty of water-based lube on the recipient. Clean the harness and dildo separately after use.

Frequently Asked Questions About Strap-On Dildos

What is the difference between a strap-on dildo and a strap-on?

Functionally the same—a strap-on dildo is the Dutch term, strap-on the English one. Both refer to a dildo attached to a harness. In practice, the terms are used interchangeably. Strapon and strap on are informal spellings of the same product.

What is pegging?

Pegging is the term for anal penetration of a man by a woman using a strap-on dildo. It is an increasingly popular sexual practice. The woman wears the harness with the dildo and penetrates the man. Read more in the comprehensive blog about pegging for practical tips and background information.

Is a double strap-on dildo also suitable for beginners?

A double strap-on dildo is slightly more difficult to use than a single-arm model because the internal arm must stay in place. Start with a model that has a sturdy internal arm and practice positioning it before involving a partner. Choose a model with a shorter external arm if you’re new to pegging.

How do I clean a strap-on dildo?

Wash the dildo with warm water and soap. Silicone dildos without a harness can be boiled. The harness—usually made of nylon or leather—should be washed by hand or in the washing machine on a low setting. Let both dry completely before storing. Store the dildo separately from the harness.