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Rimba - Spanking Ruler - Teach Me A Lesson

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Rimba Bondage Play spank-me ruler of sturdy bamboo with a length of 40 cm.

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Kiotos - Narrow Leather Paddle - Clap - Black

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Whip paddle clap

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Kiotos - Bamboo Paddle - Solid - 42 cm

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Super cool bamboo paddle, 42 cm long. If you really want to hear it slam into your buttocks, you should try this one. Lies well in the hand and is ...

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Kiotos - PU leather paddle with wooden handle - Brown - Length 30 cm

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Specifications: Weight: 197 grams Color: Brown Body-safe: Yes Length: 30 cm Material: Wooden handle, synthetic leather slice Product Description:...

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Rimba - Bamboo Paddle With Holes For Extra Impact

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Sturdy paddle with holes for extra effect. Made of durable bamboo. Approximately 40 cm long

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Rimba - Wooden Spanking Paddle with “Bitch” Inscription

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Experience the ultimate spanking sensation with the Rimba Bondage Play Wooden Paddle. This paddle is specially designed for BDSM enthusiasts who lo...

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Rimba - Bamboo Paddle With Holes For An Extra Effect

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Bamboo paddle with holes for an extra splash effect. For naughty schoolgirl/schoolboy roleplay or to discipline your sub.

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Rimba - Double Floppy Whip - Paddle - Silicone - Medium/heavy impact - Vegan

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Beautiful floppy whip made of a heavy quality silicone. Waterproof and therefore very suitable for naughty games in bathroom, hot tub, sauna or tro...

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Rimba - Leather Paddle - 1 Smooth Side - 1 Side With Studs - Black

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The Rimba - Leather Paddle with Studs is not a toy for the faint of heart. Every stroke feels immediate, raw, and intense. The combination of smoot...

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Rimba - Leather Flap Whip With 3 Tails And Metal Strip - Black

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Flap whip with three flaps, 40 cm long with metal inner core. Impact: medium/high

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Kiotos - Silicone Paddle - vegan friendly

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This flexible paddle is made of silky-soft, high-quality silicone. An O-ring allows you to hang this paddle anywhere you want. You can spank hard o...

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Kiotos -Leather Paddle with 3 Straps - Black

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cThis black leather paddle provides extra sensational experience, thanks to the three separate flaps, so the intensity can be more intense than tha...

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Brutus - SMASHER - Silicone paddle - Black - 2 sizes

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BRUTUS silicone paddle, a product designed for impact play within BDSM scenarios. Here is a summary of the key features and benefits of this partic...

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Kiotos - Classic Paddle - Red

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Beautiful paddle in black, red or pink with which to dispense good punishment. Tight and rigid yet pliable this 34 cm long paddle is very manageabl...

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Kiotos - Classic Paddle - Pink

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Beautiful paddle in black, red or pink with which to dispense good punishment. Tight and rigid yet pliable this 34 cm long paddle is very manageabl...

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Kiotos - Short Slice Of Leather With Open Heart Hard Love

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This paddle looks cute, but once your partner has it, you'll experience it differently. From a loving to a challenging and hard rap, you are in con...

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Rimba - Whip Hand With Metal strip Inside - really hurts

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Hand whip Whip with hand, 40 cm long with metal inner core. This hand saves your hands but not your partner's buttocks. Impact: high

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Rimba - Heart-Shaped Flap Whip With Stitched Embellishment

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This nicely designed flap whip is decorated with stitching on one side. The other side is plain. This is a quality product from the Dutch manufactu...

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Kiotos - Black/Red Leather Long Paddle Flap Whip

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The Kiotos Black and Red Leather Long Paddle Flap Whip is a versatile accessory perfect for various impact play experiences. Made of dura...

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Sevanda - Spanking Paddle With Braided Handle

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Product features: Elegant Design:The paddle has a sleek black design with a striking red braided handle, adding a touch of sophistication to your...

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Smart Moves - Paddle PIG - 32 cm - Black/Red

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Paddle PIG 32 cm Black/Red - Bold and PlayfulThe Paddle PIG 32 cm Black/Red is a naughty addition to any BDSM collection. With its cut-out “PIG” mo...

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Black Label - Leather Paddle with Studs - Black

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This leather paddle from the Black Label collection is nice and sturdy and sits firmly in your hand. One side of the paddle is plain, the other sid...

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Black Label - Hit Me - Leather Paddle with Studs - Black/Red

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This black and red leather paddle from the Black Label collection is nice and sturdy and sits firmly in your hand. One side of the paddle has the t...

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Mister B - Impact Tenderizer Metal Paddle - Heavy Impact

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A good tool always gets the job done. That's what you get with Mister B Impact Tenderizer Metal Paddle. You'll find that this slim, square impact t...

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Liebe Seele - The Equestrian - Leather Slapper

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Unique and one-of-a-kind, that's what you can safely call Liebe Seele's new Equestrian collection. This series of toys is inspired by the tradition...

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Rimba - Leather Paddle - Handle with Studs - Black

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Paddle decorated with decorative studs, 35 cm long made of double leather. This paddle comes pretty hard. Impact: high

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Rimba - Flap Whip - Paddle - Brown

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Rimba Bondage Play: extra thick flap whip or paddle made of real leather. This whip is also available in black leather ref # 7739Material LeatherSi...

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Brutus - Padded Leather Punisher Paddle - Black

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BRUTUS Padded Leather Punisher Paddle - Reach with ControlLong, narrow, and designed to bring rhythm to the game. The BRUTUS Padded Leather Punishe...

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Brutus - Leather Correction Officer Baton - Black

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The BRUTUS Leather Correction Officer Baton draws its inspiration directly from the classic police baton but is specially designed for BDSM and imp...

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BRUTUS - Leather Paddle with Padded Striking Surface - Black

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A good paddle doesn’t have to be rock-hard to make an impression. The BRUTUS Leather Paddle with Padded Striking Surface combines a classic design ...

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665 Vegan - BDSM Discipline Paddle - Black

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The design of this toy is inspired by classic disciplinary paddles, but executed in a modern vegan version. The material feels sturdy and offers a ...

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Brutus - Leather Paddle with Holes - Black

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The Brutus - Leather Paddle with Holes is designed for impact play enthusiasts who appreciate variety and precision. This paddle combines a wide st...

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Brutus - Leather Punisher Paddle with Nubs - Black

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This punisher paddle leaves little to the imagination. Narrow in shape, the design combines a classic paddle with a biting sensation. Sleek black l...

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Brutus - Leather Boarding School Punishment Ruler

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Sleek, direct, and without detours. This leather boarding school punishment ruler exudes classic discipline and leaves little room for doubt. Every...

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Brutus - Leather Puppy Trainer Paddle - Black

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This leather puppy trainer paddle plays with contrast. Mischievous in appearance, determined in action. An accessory that builds tension with a win...

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Smart Moves - Heart Paddle - 32 cm - Black/Red

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Smart Moves - Heart Paddle 32 cm Black/RedThe Smart Moves - Heart Paddle 32 cm Black/Red is a stylish BDSM accessory that combines power and playfu...

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Brutus - The Boot - Silicone Paddle with Shoe Sole

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Brutus - The Boot - Silicone Paddle with Shoe SoleBrutus The Boot is not a toy for beginners. This boot-shaped paddle made of sturdy silicone is de...

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SODORRA Vegan + Neo Diamond Paddle - Black

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SODORRA Vegan + Neo Diamond Paddle - Black Stylish and powerful vegan paddle for refined impact play The SODORRA Vegan + Neo Diamond Paddle is a ve...

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Black Label - Wooden Police Baton - Bat - Black

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Wooden Police Baton - Classic and PowerfulThis stylish wooden police baton is made of solid wood. A wonderful addition to any collection and a real...

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Kiotos - Black Leather Y-Split Paddle

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The Kiotos Black Leather Y-Split Paddle is a striking addition to any whip collection. With a Y-shaped split design, this paddle offers a...

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Kiotos - Leather Sweetheart Paddle

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The Kiotos Leather Sweetheart Paddle is a charming spanking accessory designed to add a playful touch to your intimate moments. Made of s...

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665 Vegan - Slapper Paddle - Faux Leather - Black

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Vegan Leather Slapper Paddle with braided handle by 665 Leather Ultimate control for impact play Wide, rigid surface delivers a satisfying, loud, ...

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665 Vegan - The Enforcer - Paddle - Faux Leather - Black

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Vegan Leather Slapper Paddle by 665 Leather Delivers firm yet controlled strikes—ideal for seasoned players and beginners exploring limits Sturdy ...

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Kiotos - Thick Leather Pillow Paddle - Black

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quality thick leather and featuring a padded design. The wide surface and thick padding ensure that every stroke comes through deep and dull. Ideal...

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Smart Moves - Paddle - 36 cm - Black with White Ribbon

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Smart Moves - Paddle - 36 cm Diamonds - Black with Pink Ribbon

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Black Label - Leather Paddle - Hand Shape

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Discover an exclusive accessory that brings sophistication and tantalizing tension to every touch - our black leather paddle in the shape of a hand...

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Black Label - Leather Paddle in Foot Shape - Black

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 Designed for the discerning enthusiast, this toy brings a playful and challenging dimension to your BDSM experience. Perfect for fans of span...

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A paddle delivers a direct, broad strike—effective, controllable, and ideal for those new to impact play. The wide striking surface distributes the force over a large area, making the impact less sharp than a whip but still fully felt. From a soft leather paddle to a sturdy wooden spanking paddle: in this collection, you’ll find paddles for every skill level and intensity preference.

Buying a paddle—which type is right for you?

Leather paddle is the most versatile choice: warm to the touch, it delivers a deep, duller sensation. Leather flexes slightly upon impact—which makes the impact softer than a rigid paddle. Ideal for beginners and for longer sessions. Wooden paddle is stiffer and harder. The impact is more direct and sharper, with hardly any cushioning upon impact. Wooden paddles are popular in spanking contexts because of their firm, unambiguous impact. Perforated paddle has holes in the striking surface that reduce air resistance—the strike lands harder than a solid paddle of the same size. For those who want a more intense impact with the same arm movement. Double-sided paddle has two different surfaces—often leather on one side and a harder material on the other—for variety in a single instrument.

Sex paddle — spanking as erotic play

Spanking with a paddle is one of the most common BDSM activities. The combination of the sensation, the sound, and the visual aspect of a red mark makes paddles popular in both light erotic play and more serious impact play. Always start with light taps on the buttocks—the most suitable and safest area for paddle use. Build up the intensity slowly and communicate continuously.

Safety when using a paddle

Always strike fleshy tissue: the buttocks and upper thighs. Avoid the tailbone, kidneys, spine, and the back of the knees. Check the skin regularly—redness is normal, bruises are acceptable, open wounds are a stop sign. Use a safeword and respect it immediately. After a more intense session: aftercare—the receiver needs warmth and touch.

Combining with other impact play

A paddle pairs perfectly with a blindfold—the receiver doesn’t know when the strike is coming, which greatly increases the anticipation. Alternate a paddle with a flogger for a varied session with different impact sensations. Or combine with soft caressing and tickling accessories for contrast between soft and hard.

Frequently Asked Questions About Paddles

What is a sex paddle?

A sex paddle or spanking paddle is a flat instrument—made of leather, wood, or plastic—used for erotic striking as part of impact play or spanking. The wide striking surface distributes the force for a manageable yet noticeable impact.

Is a paddle more painful than a whip?

Not necessarily—it depends on the intensity. A soft leather paddle is gentler than a hard whip. A wooden paddle at full force is more intense than a soft flogger. The width of the paddle distributes the force; a whip concentrates it on a single point.

Which paddle is best for beginners?

Start with a medium-thickness leather paddle. Soft enough for light strokes, firm enough to provide clear feedback. Avoid wooden paddles and perforated models if you’re just starting out—they’re more intense than they appear.

How do I use a paddle safely?

Always aim for the buttocks or upper thighs. Start light—about one-tenth of your maximum strength. Increase gradually and communicate using the safeword. Check the skin regularly. Let the stroke land before moving the paddle back—don’t strike again in the same motion.

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