Impact Play
Rattan Cane With Eight Straws In 1 Handle
Kiotos8 pieces of rattan in 1 handleWith this cane that consists of eight straws your sub will squeak differently.If the 60 cm long sticks come on your b...
View full detailsKiotos - Rattan Cane - Black Handle
KiotosSingle piece rattan/cane cane with black handle. This whip is made from a single stick of bamboo material and is extremely flexible. It is more int...
View full detailsKiotos - Leather Single Tail Whip - 60 cm - Black
KiotosMake an unforgettable impression with this impressive whip. The strong whip is made of high quality black leather and comes with a handy wrist stra...
View full detailsLeather Single Tail Whip – 120 cm - Black
KiotosMake an unforgettable impression with this impressive whip. The strong whip is made of high quality black leather and comes with a handy wrist stra...
View full detailsRimba - BDSM Hot Wax Candle - Large - Red
RimbaThis large wax candle melts at low temperature and is therefore ideal for SM games without risk of burning.With a whip afterwards, the candle wax o...
View full detailsFlexible Cane Made Of PVC And Covered With Leather - Black
KiotosThis whip is a fierce instrument, which provides fierce pain concentrated in a small area. The Poing by Kiotos is made of very flexible PVC and cov...
View full detailsKiotos - Humbler Made of wood - Black
KiotosWith the adjustable "Wooden Humbler" by the brand Kiotos, you force your sub in a hunched and kneeling position, where he belongs and he is at the ...
View full detailsKiotos - Bamboo Cane With Handle
KiotosThis popular thick bamboo cane comes with a handy strap with a braided leatherette handle in red and black. The cane is made of bamboo, is lightwei...
View full detailsRimba - Hot Wax SM Candles 3 Pieces
RimbaRimba Bondage Play, 3 sm candles in a box. The candles are made of 90% paraffin, 3% fragrance and 1% colour pigment.
Rimba - BDSM Hot Wax Candle - Large - Black
RimbaThis wax candle melts at low temperature and is therefore ideal for SM games without the risk of burning.The candle wax is then smeared off with a ...
View full detailsKiotos - Wooden Humbler
KiotosLet's see who's boss! With the adjustable Wooden Humbler from the brand Kiotos, you force your sub in a hunched and kneeling position and he is at ...
View full detailsSweet Caress - Whip And Feather In 1 - Red
Sweet CaressWhip pen Sweet Caress. SM perfect accessory to punish your subject. The swatter is shaped like a hand. The whip is decorated with red and black fea...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Silicone Short Whip
KiotosMeet our Short BDSM Silicone Whip by Kiotos Leather. Are you looking for a powerful and versatile addition to your intimate products? This whip is ...
View full detailsRimba - Carbon Fiber Riding Crop/Cane With High Impact
RimbaBeautiful riding crop with carbon fiber core, 75 cm long. With this riding crop you can not only hit with the flap, but also with the length and us...
View full detailsRimba Bondage Play - Leather Cane - Plastic Inner Core - Length 62 cm
RimbaLeather Cane. Made of black leather, 62 cm long. This cane has a plastic inner core. Impact: Very High Material: Leather Size: 62 cm Long Color: B...
View full detailsLong braided single tail - Bull Whip - 190 cm long - Red/Black
KiotosWith this whip, you're in for a bittersweet punishment! Black and red whip measuring no less than 190 cm long, perfect for delivering a good spanki...
View full detailsRatan Cane - Two straws in 1 handle
Kiotos2 pieces of rattan in 1 handle.With this cane that consists of two straws your sub will squeak differently.When the 60 cm long sticks come on your ...
View full detailsRimba - Arabian Bullwhip - 150 cm - Black
RimbaLong whip, also called bullwhip, of 155 cm long. Made of PU with leather look.This whip is also available in an even longer version of 250 cm ref #...
View full detailsRimba Bondage Play - Riding Crop And Feather Tickler - 2 In 1 Toy - Red/Black
RimbaRimba Bondage Play Double Pleasure Whip - Black This duo whip has a soft side and a hard side. While the black springs provide a soft, teasing sens...
View full detailsRimba - Crop For SM Play
RimbaKitty riding crop with flap. Length 70 cm. Split leather
Kiotos - Mahogany Single Tail Whip - Black/Red
KiotosWith this whip, you face a bittersweet punishment! A sturdy and tough black and red whip of no less than 85 cm long to give good strokes to your pa...
View full detailsKiotos - Heavy Duty Bamboo Cane With Handle
KiotosThis popular thick bamboo cane comes with a handy strap with a handle made of braided faux leather in red and black. The cane is made of bamboo, is...
View full detailsRimba - Spanking Ruler - Teach Me A Lesson
RimbaRimba Bondage Play spank-me ruler of sturdy bamboo with a length of 40 cm.
Kiotos - Butt Plug and Whip in One - Devil Tail Butt Plug and Braided Singletail 2-in-1 -.
KiotosAre you ready to take your BDSM play to the next level? Discover our Pu-Leather Devil Tail with butt plug and Weaved Whip in one! This versatile an...
View full detailsRimba - Horsehair whip
RimbaLeather handle and further made of real horsehair. That seems very sweet, but beware, looks can be deceiving!
Kiotos - Special Duo Pinwheel - Black
KiotosWartenberg Pinwheel of SM BDSM Toys for CouplesDesigned to test nerve sensitivity as it is rolled across the skin 2 wheels made of metal and an AB...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Single Tail Whip - 90cm
KiotosMake an unforgettable impression with this impressive whip. The strong whip is made of high quality black leather and comes with a handy wrist stra...
View full detailsRimba - Rattan Flogger/Cane
RimbaBeautiful rattan flogger/cane for exciting SM games.
Rimba - Catnail
RimbaA nice toy. Sharp, but not too sharp. For all your scratching and scratching fun.This beautiful toy from quality brand Rimba has a nice look and is...
View full detailsKiotos - Crop Horse Riding Whip With Feather Plume
KiotosThis beautiful horse whip is made of high-quality vegan leather and features a beautiful feather plume. You can hit hard, hit soft or tickle with t...
View full detailsRimba - Short suede Bullwhip - Purple/black
RimbaArabian bull whip made in purple/black diamond pattern - 100 cm long.
Narrow Leather Paddle Clap - Black
Perfect LoverWhip paddle clap
Sweet Caress - Whip And Caressing Feather In 1 - Black
Sweet CaressA 2-in-1 BDSM accessory featuring a whip side with a hand-shaped flap for punishment and a feather side for pleasure, from Sweet Caress.The Sweet C...
View full detailsSweet Caress - Whip With Black Feather Pom-Pom
Sweet CaressWhip Sweet Caress. BDSM accessories perfect for punishing your subject. Pompon and two ribbons decorate this whip. Phthalate free.
Rimba - Small SM Whip With Approx. 30 Strands
RimbaRiding whip with synthetic core, black leather 65 cm long. You can use a riding crop by hitting only with the flap, but you can of course also hit ...
View full detailsKiotos - Bamboo Paddle - Solid - 42 cm
KiotosSuper cool bamboo paddle, 42 cm long. If you really want to hear it slam into your buttocks, you should try this one. Lies well in the hand and is ...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Rattan Cane - 60 cm - Black Handle
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Rattan Cane 60 cm Black HandleThe Smart Moves – Rattan Cane 60 cm Black Handle is a classic discipline instrument that perfectly comb...
View full detailsRimba - Silicone Flogger Whip 48 strands - Black
RimbaA mean black silicone flogger with 48 thin strands with a total length of 46 cm.Not only functional, the design is striking and stimulates the imag...
View full detailsSweet Caress - Black Whip - Heart-Shaped Flap - With Soft Pompom - Black
Sweet CaressThe Sweet Caress whip in Black is a playful BDSM accessory that combines softness and excitement in one seductive package. This elegant whip with a...
View full detailsKiotos - Cane With 8 Straws - Rattan/Wood - Red
Kiotos8 loose sticks (rattan) in 1 with red handle. This cane of 8 sticks of bamboo is more violent than the other whips when you are punished with it. W...
View full detailsRimba - Short Suede Bullwhip - Black
RimbaArabian bull whip made in black check pattern - 100 cm long.
Rimba - Leather Cane 70 cm
RimbaBeautiful 70 cm leather cane. The end is finished with leather strands. Dutch manufacturer of the quality brand Rimba.
Kiotos - Pinwheel With 10 Wheels
KiotosThis 10-head sensation wheel is made of durable stainless steel. Firm and smooth, the small heavy spikes roll over the skin and leave marks of plea...
View full detailsKiotos - Glans ring stainless steel With spikes And urethra pin - 35 mm
KiotosThis small thick penis ring with plug is not suitable for the sensitive souls among us. There are 6 spikes on the inside, twist the spikes outward ...
View full detailsRimba - Humbler - Ball Spreader - Wooden Humbler With Wrist Cuffs And Locks
RimbaTheHumbler Ballstretcher with Handcuffsis an exclusive product byRimba Bondage Play, designed for exciting and challenging BDSM sessions. This dar...
View full detailsLong braided single tail - Bull Whip - 190 cm long - White/Black
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you! Black and red whip measuring no less than 190 cm long, perfect for delivering a good spanking ...
View full detailsKiotos - Steel Flogger
KiotosWho has the discipline and who is the boss! Many dominants enjoy exercising power by punishing the subject. The subject, in turn, enjoys receiving ...
View full detailsRimba Bondage Play - Leather Flogger Whip With 12 strands - 105 cm long
RimbaBeautiful whip with 12 strands which is made of nice supple leather. The whip has a sturdy leather handle with wooden core and is 100 cm long. Grea...
View full detailsImpact play revolves around the deliberate giving and receiving of strikes—from a playful tap to a firm lash of the whip. It is one of the most popular BDSM techniques, and at the same time one of the most nuanced. Rhythm, intensity, location, and anticipation all come together to shape the experience. In this collection, you’ll find whips, paddles, pinwheels, and more—for every skill level and preference.
The basics of impact play
Effective impact play is more than just hitting. It’s about building up: start light, let the body get used to the sensation, and gradually increase the intensity. The submissive enters a state of heightened awareness—each touch is experienced more intensely as the session progresses. Communicate before and during the session about what feels good and what goes too far.
The location of the strike largely determines the intensity. Safe zones for beginners are the buttocks, upper thighs, and shoulder blades—these areas have plenty of muscle and fat tissue to absorb the impact. Always avoid the kidneys (lower back), the tailbone, the back of the knees, and the head.
Buying a whip — which whip is right for you?
A whip is the most iconic impact play instrument and requires the most technique. There are different types:
Flogger has multiple straps that strike simultaneously — the impact is more widely distributed and therefore less sharp than a single-strand whip. Ideal for beginners in impact play. Choose soft materials like suede or leather for your first flogger. Bullwhip is the most technical whip: a long, single rope that, with the right technique, makes a hard, sharp sound and has a precise point of impact. This is an advanced instrument that requires a lot of practice. Crops are short, stiff whips with a small striking surface—precise and controlled, easy to handle.
Paddles — wide, direct, effective
Paddles are the ideal beginner’s tool for impact play. The wide striking surface distributes the force over a large area, making the impact manageable. Paddles come in leather, wood, and plastic—each material provides a different sensation. Leather has a warmer, duller impact; wood is sharper and more direct. Always start with light taps and build up.
Hand spanking
Never forget that the hand is the most personal impact play implement. Direct skin contact, immediate feedback for the dominant, and the intimacy of touch—many people find hand spanking more intense than any other implement. Cup the hand slightly to provide a deep, warm sensation; a flat hand delivers a sharper, harder feel.
Canes — for advanced users
A cane delivers a narrow, sharp impact that feels different from a flogger or paddle. The thin striking surface concentrates the force entirely along a single line—creating an intense, lingering sensation. Caning requires technique and experience: hitting too hard or in the wrong spot can quickly go too far. Practice the motion first without hitting anyone.
Pinwheels and prickle rollers — from pain to tingling
Pinwheels and prickle rollers fall into the impact play category but feel fundamentally different: the small points provide a tingling, prickling sensation that is pleasant with light pressure and becomes sharp with firm pressure. Ideal to combine with a blindfold — the body cannot anticipate the intensity of the stimulation.
Tickling and caressing — the gentle side of impact
Feathers, brushes, and soft tassels are the counterpart to harder impact play. Combined with a blindfold, a gentle touch creates a surprise effect that feels completely different from what you expect. Alternate between gentle and firm stimuli for a varied session.
Safety in impact play
A few hard and fast rules: never strike the kidneys, the tailbone, the back of the knees, the spine, or the head. Check the skin regularly—redness is normal, bruises are acceptable, open wounds are a stop sign. Always use a safeword and respect it immediately. After a more intense session: aftercare. The submissive needs warmth, touch, and rest after an impact session.
Frequently Asked Questions About Impact Play
Where do I start with impact play?
Start with a paddle or a soft flogger made of suede. Always start light and build up. Communicate about intensity preferences before the session and use a safeword.
Is impact play dangerous?
Provided you respect the safe zones and communicate sufficiently, impact play is safe. Always avoid the kidneys, tailbone, and head. Master your instrument before using it.
What is the difference between a flogger and a whip?
A flogger has multiple straps that strike simultaneously—wider impact, less sharp. A whip has a single rope or strap and delivers a much more precise, sharper strike. Floggers are more accessible for beginners.
What is aftercare in impact play?
After an impact session, the receiver needs time and attention to calm down. Warmth (a blanket), physical contact, water, and positive communication are the foundation of good aftercare. Never skip this.
Read more about impact play
- Everything about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- Spanking: a spanking for enthusiasts
- The paradox of pain in BDSM