Sex toys can be a huge addition to your sex life and to your orgasms. They can make sexy time together with your partner even better, but of course they can also make your solo self-gratification even more enjoyable. Toys come in different sizes, shapes, types, colors and materials, which means there's bound to be something in our guide to adult sex toys that you haven't tried yet.
Every sex toy beginner should read up on learning more about lubricants, the different materials, and how to maintain your toys. By becoming more familiar with toys, you will feel more comfortable buying and using them! Discover now the toys that can make a difference in your sex life with Erotiekvoordeel.nl's sex toy guide!
Lube Essentials
Anyone who uses toys should make sure you lubricate, lubricate, lubricate! With lube we mean! We all suffer from dry spells or days when we can't quite get aroused. Especially when you are interested in anal play, you need lots of lube. Before you start playing, it is always a good idea to find out what is the best lubricant for your situation. Think about how you are going to use it and what toys you are playing with. The wrong lube on the wrong material can lead to toy damage, staining and skin irritation.
Water-based lube: Without a doubt, a water-based lube is the best all-around lubricant you can find in our sex toy guide. This type of lubricant is easy to clean and does not stain. However, water-based lubricants do tend to dry up faster than other lubricants, so you may need to add another lubricant during intercourse. Water-based lubricants also come in a variety of fruity and sensual flavors, making them great for oral sex. They can be used safely with condoms and toys made of CyberSkin, silicone, PVC and rubber. Our water-based lubricant from Kiotos is a great choice for any sexual adventure!
Silicone Lube: This lube is best known for being waterproof, making it number one for play in water. Trust our sex toy guide when we say a little silicone lube will go a long way! Its long-lasting action makes it popular for long-term use, while it's easy to clean with some soap and water. The biggest downside is that you cannot use silicone lube on CyberSkin or silicone toys without a condom because it will damage the material. Silicone lubricants are often used for anal sex because they are smoother and make penetration easier. Kiotos ' silicone lube is an excellent and budget-friendly choice!
Sex toys glossary
Anal beads: Anal beads are plastic or jelly beads that are inserted into the anus. When the person reaches climax, the experts at Erotiekvoordeel.nl's sex toy guide recommend slowly removing the beads from the anus to enhance the effects of the orgasm.
Geisha Balls: Ben-Wa balls, also known as vaginal or cone balls, are inserted into the vagina. They can strengthen your vaginal muscles for more intense orgasms and relieve incontinence if you use them regularly. For added sensations, they also come in a vibrating version.
Vibrating eggs: These vibrators are small and usually bullet or egg-shaped. Bullet vibrators are controlled with a small remote control. Bullets or vibrating eggs are one of the most discreet toys you will find in our sex toy guide!
Buttplugs: A butt plug is a flexible toy made of rubber or silicone that is inserted into the anus to increase sexual sensation. People using butt plugs for the first time are best to start with a toy with a wide base so that the plug cannot accidentally slide all the way into the anus. In addition to classic butt plugs, there are also butt plugs with embellishments such as a decorative stone or lights or butt plugs with a tail.
Clitoral vibrators: Most vibrators can be used to stimulate the clitoris, but clitoral stimulators in particular target the clitoris. They are sometimes small and fit in your palm, or are round and convex so they cover your entire vulva. Wand vibrators are also often used as clitoral stimulators.
Dildos: Dildos are one of the most popular toys in our guide to adult toys! Dildos are primarily intended for stimulation by vaginal or anal insertion. Dildos are often realistic, but not always. We have large dildos, G-spot dildos and much more!
Double Dildos: A double dildo is a flexible sex toy designed to be used by two people at once or for double penetration on one person. The toy usually has two acorns and is often made of silicone or TPE, making it soft and pliable for comfortable use. Double dildos are ideal for couples who want to experiment together or for solo users seeking an intense and versatile experience.
Glass dildos: Glass dildos are made of durable borosilicate glass that is non-porous and can be sterilized in the dishwasher. Fortunately, most people who are hypersensitive to latex and rubber can enjoy glass dildos. Glass dildos absorb heat and cold so you can also experiment very nicely with the sensations of hot or cold. The beauty of glass sex toys in this sex toy guide is that they do not crack or break. Talk about longevity!
G-Spot vibrators: G-spot vibrators are specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot, a sensitive spot at the front of the vaginal wall. They usually have a curved or angular design that easily reaches the right spot and offer powerful vibrations to provide intense pleasure. G-spot vibrators come in different sizes, with adjustable vibration patterns for a personalized experience....
Nipple suckers: Nipple suckers exert a sucking action on the nipples, which stimulates blood flow and provides increased sensitivity. The sensation can be described as intense and tingling, similar to a light sucking motion, contributing to sexual arousal and pleasure.
Strap-Ons: Strap-ons are a type of dildo you can wear on your hips, thigh, or even face to penetrate a partner. Most strap-ons are used by placing them in a harness to keep them stable during sex.
Vibrators: Vibrators, one of the most frequently mentioned products in our sex toy guide, are used to stimulate areas such as the clitoris, vagina, anus, scrotum or nipples through vibrations with one or more speeds. Vibrators come in many different shapes, sizes and designs.
Materials for sex toys
Which material your toy should be made of is a matter of personal preference. If you are looking for clitoral stimulation, you probably won't mind if the material is firmer in nature. If you are looking for anal play, then more pliable and soft materials may suit your needs. Erotiekvoordeel.nl recommends trying all types of materials once-you never know what you might be in the mood for!
- TPE toys: TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) is a popular material for sex toys because of its realistic texture, flexibility and softness, mimicking a natural experience. The material is hypoallergenic and free of latex and phthalates, making it suitable for people with sensitive skin or allergies. Another advantage is that TPE toys are often more affordable than silicone alternatives. However, keep in mind that TPE is porous, meaning it is less resistant to bacteria and requires thorough cleaning. Clean the toy with a mild antibacterial agent and lukewarm water after each use. To extend its lifespan, we recommend storing the toy in a dry, cool place away from direct sunlight.
- Silicone toys: Silicone toys are made of a non-porous, smooth material. Although slightly more expensive than other materials, silicone feels softer and more realistic and is a good choice for people with latex or rubber allergies. Hot water and antibacterial hand soap clean these non-porous toys, while silicone dildos and toys without batteries can be boiled out in water or put through the dishwasher. The No. 1 tip from our guide to adult toys when it comes to silicone toys? Never use them with silicone-based lube.
- PVC toys: PVC (Polyvinyl chloride) is a widely used material for sex toys because of its durability, flexibility and affordability. The material is lightweight, easy to manufacture and can be made in a variety of textures and hardnesses, providing versatility in design and use. An added benefit is that PVC is typically non-porous, making it easier to clean than materials such as TPE. However, it is important to choose toys made of body-safe PVC, which is free of harmful plasticizers such as phthalates. Clean PVC toys with warm water and a suitable detergent after each use, and let them dry completely before storing them. To extend the life of the toy, store it in a dry, dark place and avoid contact with other materials to avoid distortion or color transfer.
FAQ about sex toys
Q: What is a good first vibrator to start with?
Vibrators shaped like a phallus may be attractive and familiar to some, but frankly, toys that look less like a penis are much less intimidating. The Dorcel Golden Boy or the Love to Love Delight Me are just a few first vibrators that Erotiekvoordeel.nl recommends in this guide for beginners.
Q: Is there a discreet vibrator I can use?
Of course there is! Most bullets are portable, small, discreet and have multiple speeds. The Rimba Ibiza Vibrator set includes a mini vibrator and a vibrating egg with a wireless remote control, so perfect to wear without anyone knowing!
Question What strap-ons can pleasure my partner and me at the same time?
There are a few strap-ons we can recommend in our beginner's guide to sex toys. One of them is thePipedream Fantasy Extensions hollow strap-on. This adjustable hollow strap-on can be worn by both sexes. The other option we recommend is the Sevanda Vibrating Strap-on. This toy has a vibrating dildo.
Question: what are anal beads?
Anal beads are a string of hard rubber or silicone beads. The beads are strung on a cord for more mobility or fused together in a strand for deeper penetration. The amount and size of the beads varies from strand to strand. Some gradually increase in size, while others may vibrate. Using lubricant is a must with anal beads. One way to use anal beads is to insert them before you have sex and remove them slowly and piece by piece as your orgasm climaxes. It may take a few times before you feel comfortable using anal beads. That's why we recommend starting with a smaller variety first.
Q: Is anal sex enjoyable? What toys would you recommend for trying something anal?
Anal sex is like anything else: some people love it and others find it nothing for them. Shame, fear of pain or of getting messy afterwards can put some people off. The first time is almost always difficult, but with practice and relaxation it usually becomes quite fun! We recommend starting slowly and using generous amounts of lube to make it more enjoyable for everyone. If you want to start with a toy, we recommend something small and thin to start with. Crazy Bull' s three-piece set of Star Brothers is a great option for newcomers to anal sex.
Q: How do I know what size vibrator or dildo to use?
Shopping for dildos and vibrators is a bit like lazy sex. Some are too big, some are too small and some are just right!
The average dildo is 15 to 20 cm long and about 3.8 cm in diameter. On our website, we try to provide as much information as possible about the sizes with each dildo. After that, it's just a matter of personal preference.
Question: are butt plugs also for men? What are good butt plugs for beginners?
Definitely yes! Anal play is for everyone, especially those with a prostate. New users should try a softer butt plug, preferably one that is a bit smaller or slimmer. The Rimba Copenhagen set includes two anatomically shaped silicone butt plugs of different sizes to get you started.
Cleaning your sex toys
If you've already picked out a sex toy with help from our guide to adult toys, give yourself a pat on the back - you've got the trickiest part behind you! The second part? Making sure you clean them properly and regularly. This is especially important if you use your toys with more than one partner or in multiple orifices.
Basically, you have two levels of cleaning:
1. Cleaning: Cleaning removes material from the surface. To do this, use a toy cleaner or mild soap.
2. Disinfect or sanitize: Destroys bacteria and certain pathogens. For this, use a bleach solution or boil out your toys or use the dishwasher.
Toy cleaners or antibacterial hand soap and warm water will keep your toys clean as long as you wash them every time you finish playing.
Bleach
Toys can be disinfected with a bleach solution after cleaning the surface. Make a bleach solution using a ratio of five tablespoons (⅓ cup) of household bleach per gallon of water. “Spray the toy with the bleach solution and let it sit for 10 minutes, or immerse the toy in the bleach solution for 10 minutes,” she says.
This advice is based on CDC recommendations for disinfection. Toys that qualify as 100 percent waterproof (not splash-proof) can be safely immersed in bleach solution. After the bleach treatment, wash the toy again thoroughly with soap and water.
Boiling out
You can disinfect toys made of 100% silicone, stainless steel and borosilicate glass by first cleaning them on the surface and then immersing them in a pan of boiling water for three minutes.
Remove the boiled toy from the water with tongs and let it air dry on a clean towel. Do not rinse it with cold water immediately after cooking because the extreme temperature change can stress the material.