Strap-On Sets

Do you want to use a strap-on without having to figure out which harness and which dildo go together? With a strap-on set, you’re choosing a complete package that comes with a harness and a matching dildo. This gives you all the essential components for a strap-on right away, and you know they’re designed to be used together.

A complete strap-on set is therefore a practical choice for beginners—but certainly not just for those trying a strap-on for the first time. Even if you simply don’t feel like searching for a harness, O-ring, and suitable dildo separately, a complete set is incredibly convenient.

Would you rather choose which harness and dildo to combine yourself? Then check out our individual Strap-On Harnesses and Strap-On Dildos. You can find all other models in the main collection Strap-Ons & Strap-On Dildos.

What is a strap-on set?

A strap-on set consists of a harness and at least one dildo that come together as a set. Depending on the model, the set may also include various O-rings, extra dildos, or other accessories.

The main difference from a standalone strap-on harness is simple: with a set, the dildo is included. You don’t have to search for a dildo with the right base and diameter to fit the harness.

That makes a strap-on with harness and dildo an accessible way to get started with strap-on sex. Put on the harness, adjust it properly, attach the dildo, and you’re ready to go. Of course, only after you’ve checked that everything is secure and comfortable—even with a complete set, a quick technical check beforehand is still a great idea.

Complete Strap-On Set with Harness

The classic strap-on consists of two main parts: a dildo and a harness that holds it against the body. In a complete strap-on set with harness, those parts are already combined for you.

The harness is typically worn around the waist or hips and adjusted with adjustable straps. The dildo is attached to the front, often using an O-ring or an integrated attachment. By ensuring the harness fits snugly against the body, the wearer can guide the dildo with hip and body movements.

The exact design varies by set. Some harnesses are minimalist and consist of just a few adjustable straps, while other models feature more material around the hips or buttocks. Therefore, don’t just look at the included dildo, but also at the harness you’ll ultimately be wearing.

Why choose a complete strap-on set?

The biggest advantage of a complete strap-on set is compatibility. When you buy a separate harness and a separate dildo, you have to check for yourself whether the dildo’s diameter fits the O-ring and whether the base is wide enough to stay securely in the harness.

With a set, the included parts are designed to work together. That makes the choice easier, especially when terms like “O-ring diameter,” “flared base,” and “dildo harness” aren’t yet part of your everyday vocabulary.

In addition, sets can be appealing because some models include multiple dildos or different O-rings. This allows you to switch between different sizes or styles within a single system.

Strap-on Set for Beginners

For those trying a strap-on dildo for the first time, a strap-on set for beginners is often a practical starting point. You don’t have to figure out separately which harness and which dildo are compatible, so you can focus primarily on fit, size, and use.

As a beginner, it’s best to choose a harness that’s easily adjustable and a dildo in a size that’s comfortable for the receiving partner. A huge dildo might look impressive in the product photo, but your first strap-on experience isn’t necessarily the ideal time to break any records.

A smaller or medium size is generally easier to control. After all, the wearer also needs to get used to maneuvering a dildo that doesn’t provide the same immediate sensation as a body part. Taking your time to practice movement, angle, and pace usually makes the experience much more enjoyable.

Adjustable strap-on harness

In many strap-on sets, the harness is adjustable. This is important because a strap-on harness must fit securely enough against the body to properly transfer the wearer’s movements to the dildo.

A harness that’s too loose can shift or tilt. If it’s too tight, the straps can dig in, making prolonged wear less comfortable. So take the time to properly adjust all the adjustment points before you actually use the strap-on.

Also check the product specifications for the harness’s maximum adjustment range. A wide adjustment range can be especially important when different partners want to wear the same strap-on.

Do you want maximum freedom in fit and the ability to choose which dildo you use? Then check out our collection of separate strap-on harnesses.

Strap-on set with interchangeable dildos

Not every complete set means you’re stuck with just one dildo forever. With some strap-on sets with interchangeable dildos, you can use different toys in the same harness.

Some sets come with multiple dildos right out of the box. Others feature a harness with an O-ring that can accommodate other compatible dildos later on. For example, you can start with the included model and later try a different length, thickness, or shape.

If you want to expand your set later, first check the diameter of the O-ring and which type of base is compatible. In our collection of separate strap-on dildos, you’ll find dildos that are suitable for use with a compatible harness.

Strap-on set with multiple dildos

Some complete sets come with two or more dildos. A strap-on set with multiple dildos gives you more choice right away without having to buy individual toys.

For example, the dildos may vary in length, diameter, or shape. This allows you to choose a size that suits your partner, the position, or the experience at that moment. This can also be convenient when both partners use the strap-on but have different preferences.

Check which dildos are actually included with each set. The contents can vary significantly by model.

Strap-on sets for women and men

A strap-on set isn’t intended exclusively for women. Many adjustable harnesses are unisex and can be worn by people of different body types, as long as the sizing and construction are suitable.

This means strap-on sets can be used by women, men, and couples who enjoy switching roles. Depending on the model chosen, the dildo can be used for vaginal or anal penetration, pegging, and other forms of partner play.

For each set, check the harness’s construction and the specified adjustment range. Not every harness will automatically fit every body type equally comfortably.

Strap-on set for pegging

A strap-on set for pegging can be an easy way to get started with pegging. In pegging, one partner is anally penetrated by a partner wearing a strap-on. A sturdy harness and a dildo of the right size are important for this.

For beginners, a dildo that isn’t too thick is usually more comfortable for gradually building up to the experience. A well-fitting harness gives the wearing partner more control over angle, pace, and depth of penetration.

Always use plenty of suitable lubricant during anal penetration. The anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so using plenty of lubricant and taking it slow are important for a comfortable experience.

Strap-on set or individual parts?

The choice between a complete strap-on set and individual parts depends mainly on how much freedom of choice you want.

With a complete set, you know that the harness and included dildo are designed to work together. That’s simple and saves you from having to compare all kinds of sizes yourself.

With individual parts, on the other hand, you have more freedom. You can first choose a strap-on harness that perfectly suits your needs in terms of material, fit, and attachment system, and then combine it with one or more strap-on dildos in the desired length and thickness.

If convenience is your main priority, a set is the obvious choice. If you want to be able to mix and match from the start and easily expand your collection later, individual components might be more appealing.

What size dildo should you choose with a strap-on set?

With a complete set, it’s tempting to focus mainly on the size of the dildo, but don’t forget the harness. A good combination should be comfortable for both the wearer and the receiving partner.

When choosing a dildo, pay attention to the insertable length, diameter, or girth. Thickness, in particular, plays a major role in determining how intense the penetration feels. For beginners, a more modest size may be easier to get used to.

Also consider the weight. A very large and heavy dildo puts more strain on the harness and may pull or tilt more while you’re moving. A dildo that fits the harness well usually gives the wearer more control.

Material of the Harness and Dildo

With a strap-on set, you’re dealing with two separate components, each of which may be made of different materials. For example, dildos can be made of silicone, PVC, or other plastics, while harnesses may consist of fabric, faux leather, genuine leather, or elastic straps, among other materials.

The dildo’s material determines, among other things, how firm or flexible it feels. The material and construction of the harness primarily affect comfort, fit, appearance, and maintenance.

Therefore, be sure to check the product information for the entire set. Knowing what the dildo is made of doesn’t tell you how the harness feels—and vice versa.

How do you use a strap-on set?

Before using it for the first time, take a moment to examine the system without rushing. Check how the dildo is attached and familiarize yourself with the harness’s adjustment points.

Put on the harness and adjust the straps so that it fits snugly but comfortably around your body. Then attach the dildo according to the instructions for that specific model and check that it’s securely held in place.

Start by making a few gentle hip movements before beginning penetration. This will help you quickly determine if the harness fits properly and if the dildo remains stable enough. You can then adjust any straps if necessary before they suddenly start demanding your attention in the middle of the action.

Cleaning a Strap-On Set

Clean the dildo and harness after use according to the manufacturer’s instructions. If the dildo can be removed from the harness, it’s best to clean both parts separately.

The correct cleaning method depends on the material. A silicone or plastic dildo requires different care than, for example, a leather harness. Therefore, don’t automatically use the same cleaning product for all parts of the set.

Let everything dry completely before storing the strap-on. Pay extra attention to O-rings, attachment points, and other areas where body fluids or lubricant can accumulate.

What should you look for when buying a strap-on set?

If you want to buy a strap-on set, look beyond just the appearance of the included dildo. Consider the following: By examining both the harness and the dildo, you’ll choose a set that not only comes complete out of the box but also suits the way you and your partner want to use it.

• what type of harness is included with the set;
• the harness’s range of adjustment;
• the number of dildos included;
• the total and insertable length of the dildo;
• the diameter or circumference;
• the material of the dildo and harness;
• whether the dildo is interchangeable;
• the diameter and type of O-ring;
• any additional O-rings or accessories included;
• the intended use, such as vaginal penetration or pegging.

Frequently Asked Questions About Strap-On Sets

What’s included in a strap-on set?

A strap-on set includes at least a harness and a matching dildo. Depending on the model, it may also come with multiple dildos, various O-rings, or other accessories. Always check the product description for the exact contents.

Is a strap-on set suitable for beginners?

Yes. A complete set can actually be helpful for beginners because you don’t have to figure out which harness and which dildo go together. Preferably, choose a harness that’s easily adjustable and a dildo in a size that’s comfortable for the receiving partner.

Can I use a different dildo in my strap-on harness later?

That depends on the harness. With many O-ring harnesses, you can replace the included dildo with another suitable model. Always check the diameter of the O-ring and the shape and width of the dildo’s base. Take a look at our separate Strap-on Dildos for more options.

Can a strap-on set be used for pegging?

Yes, many strap-on sets can be used for pegging. Choose a dildo of a suitable size, make sure the harness fits securely and comfortably, and use plenty of lube during anal penetration.

Which is better: a strap-on set or a separate harness?

That depends on what you’re looking for. A set is convenient because the harness and dildo come together. With a separate strap-on harness and a separate dildo, you have more freedom to put together your own desired combination.

Everything you need for your first—or next—strap-on

With a complete strap-on set, you don’t have to hunt down the essential pieces separately. Choose a harness that fits comfortably around your body and a dildo in a size that suits your experience and preferences, and you’ll immediately have a complete foundation for strap-on sex, pegging, and other forms of penetration.

Prefer to mix and match yourself? Then check out our Strap-On Harnesses and Strap-On Dildos. If you’d rather explore other styles, such as strapless, hollow, or brief-style models, browse the full selection of Strap-Ons & Strap-On Dildos.