Lubricant

Lubricants for every need: water-based for universal use, oil-based for a richer texture, and silicone-based for long-lasting lubrication. Here you’ll find anal lubricant, flavored lubricant, stimulating and tingling lubricant, and numbing lubricant for anal sex. Brands like EasyGlide, Swiss Navy, pjur, and Eros are well-represented. Not sure which type you need? The SEO block below the products explains the differences. Also check out the condoms for use in combination with lube.

What is lube?

Lubricant—also spelled lube—is a liquid or gel that reduces friction during sexual contact or when using sex toys. Water-based lubricant is the most common type: watery in texture, condom-safe, and easy to wash off. Oil-based lubricant is richer and longer-lasting but not compatible with latex condoms. Silicone-based lubricant is water-resistant and very long-lasting but unsuitable for silicone toys. Hybrid lubricant combines water- and silicone-based formulas for a balance between ease of use and longevity. In addition to the base, the additives determine the effect: stimulating, tingling, warming, or numbing.

Why is using lubricant helpful?

The body naturally produces moisture during sexual arousal, but this isn’t always enough—especially during anal sex, prolonged use of toys, or during hormonal changes such as during and after menopause. Lubricant compensates for this and prevents friction, irritation, and micro-tears that increase the risk of infection. For anal sex, lubricant is not an option but a necessity: the anal canal does not produce its own moisture. When using sex toys, lubricant extends the toy’s lifespan and significantly increases comfort.

Types and Varieties

Water-based lubricant

The most versatile option. Compatible with all condom types, silicone toys, and easy to wash off skin and bedding. Drawback: dries faster than oil- or silicone-based lubricants. Popular brands: EasyGlide, pjur Aqua. Suitable for vaginal and anal sex and for use with all toy materials.

Oil-based lubricant

Richer in texture and longer-lasting than water-based. Popular for massage and when used without a condom. Oil-based lubricant damages latex and polyisoprene condoms—use only with polyurethane condoms. Not suitable for silicone or rubber toys. Coconut oil and almond oil are sometimes used as alternatives but are not formulated for intimate use and can disrupt the vaginal flora.

Silicone-based lubricant

Water-resistant and very long-lasting—ideal for use in the shower or bath. Condom-safe with latex condoms. Not suitable for silicone toys: the silicone in the lubricant damages the silicone of the toy. Brands: pjur Original, Eros Bodyglide, Swiss Navy Silicone.

Anal lubricant

Thicker in consistency than standard lubricant so it stays in place longer. Special water-based anal lubricant is safe with condoms and silicone toys. Numbing anal lubricant contains lidocaine or benzocaine and reduces pain sensitivity — use this only if you already have experience, because pain is a signal you shouldn’t ignore. The best anal lubricant depends on use: water-based for toys, silicone-based for extended sessions without toys.

Flavored lubricant

Water-based lubricant with added flavor—strawberry, cherry, vanilla, and tropical flavors are popular. Suitable for oral contact and for use during oral sex. Check if the product is sugar-free when used vaginally: sugar in lubricant can promote yeast infections. Edible lubricant and flavored lubricant are synonyms.

Stimulating and tingling lubricant

Lubricant with additives that provide a tingling, warming, or cooling effect on the skin. Stimulating lubricant often contains menthol for a cooling effect or capsaicin derivatives for warmth. Tingling lubricant provides a mild tingling sensation that increases blood flow. Always test on a small patch of skin first if you are sensitive to menthol or spices.

What should you look for when buying?

Compatibility is the first criterion: check whether the lubricant is suitable for use with your type of condom and toy material. Water-based is always safe; oil- and silicone-based have limitations. For anal lubricant, check the thickness—a lubricant that’s too thin won’t work well for anal use. Choose pH-neutral lubricant for vaginal use to avoid disrupting the natural flora. Check the ingredient list for glycerin and parabens if you’re prone to infections—some people react to these.

Frequently Asked Questions About Lubricant

Which lubricant is best for anal use?

For anal use, choose a thicker lubricant that doesn’t run off easily. Water-based anal lubricant is the most versatile: condom-safe and suitable for silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricant lasts longer but is unsuitable for silicone toys. We don’t recommend numbing lubricant for beginners—pain is a signal you want to keep feeling.

Is oil-based lube safe with condoms?

No, not with latex or polyisoprene condoms. Oil breaks down latex and increases the risk of tearing. Use oil-based lube only without a condom or combine it with polyurethane condoms, which are oil-resistant.

Can I use coconut oil as a lubricant?

Coconut oil is often used as an alternative but is not formulated for intimate use. It damages latex condoms and can disrupt the vaginal pH balance, which increases the risk of a yeast infection. For occasional use without a condom, the risk is limited, but a lubricant specifically formulated for intimate use poses less risk.

What is the difference between stimulating and numbing lubricant?

Stimulating lubricant increases sensitivity through tingling or warmth—it intensifies the sensation. Numbing lubricant reduces sensitivity through local anesthesia. Stimulating lubricant is suitable for almost everyone. Numbing lubricant is intended for situations where pain is a barrier, but use it with caution: pain is also a protective signal.

How much lube do you use at a time?

For vaginal sex, a small amount—about a teaspoon—is usually enough to supplement your own natural lubrication. For anal sex, use more and apply it in layers: both on the outside and inside. Reapply as needed if the lube dries out.