Impact Play
Rattan Cane With Eight Straws In 1 Handle
Kiotos8 pieces of rattan in 1 handleWith this cane that consists of eight straws your sub will squeak differently.If the 60 cm long sticks come on your b...
View full detailsFlexible Cane Made Of PVC And Covered With Leather - Black
KiotosThis whip is a fierce instrument, which provides fierce pain concentrated in a small area. The Poing by Kiotos is made of very flexible PVC and cov...
View full detailsKiotos - Wooden Humbler
KiotosLet's see who's boss! With the adjustable Wooden Humbler from the brand Kiotos, you force your sub in a hunched and kneeling position and he is at ...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Silicone Short Whip
KiotosMeet our Short BDSM Silicone Whip by Kiotos Leather. Are you looking for a powerful and versatile addition to your intimate products? This whip is ...
View full detailsLong braided single tail - Bull Whip - 190 cm long - Red/Black
KiotosWith this whip, you're in for a bittersweet punishment! Black and red whip measuring no less than 190 cm long, perfect for delivering a good spanki...
View full detailsRatan Cane - Two straws in 1 handle
Kiotos2 pieces of rattan in 1 handle.With this cane that consists of two straws your sub will squeak differently.When the 60 cm long sticks come on your ...
View full detailsKiotos - Butt Plug and Whip in One - Devil Tail Butt Plug and Braided Singletail 2-in-1 -.
KiotosAre you ready to take your BDSM play to the next level? Discover our Pu-Leather Devil Tail with butt plug and Weaved Whip in one! This versatile an...
View full detailsKiotos - Special Duo Pinwheel - Black
KiotosWartenberg Pinwheel of SM BDSM Toys for CouplesDesigned to test nerve sensitivity as it is rolled across the skin 2 wheels made of metal and an AB...
View full detailsKiotos - Bamboo Paddle - Solid - 42 cm
KiotosSuper cool bamboo paddle, 42 cm long. If you really want to hear it slam into your buttocks, you should try this one. Lies well in the hand and is ...
View full detailsLong braided single tail - Bull Whip - 190 cm long - White/Black
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you! Black and red whip measuring no less than 190 cm long, perfect for delivering a good spanking ...
View full detailsKiotos - Paddle Leather Black Luxury
KiotosPaddle made of 3.8 mm thick double-layered leather and a leather loop, edges smoothly finished. This paddle is made of high quality leather, perf...
View full detailspinwheel
KiotosThe pinwheel gives a tantalizing sensation as it rolls over your skin with its sharp points and wheels. The toy features 1 wheel with sharp points ...
View full detailsKiotos - Pinwheel Set With interchangeable Wheels
KiotosAre you a true pinwheel lover? Then this Pinwheel Set is an absolute must-have! This set consists of a steel base with 4 attachable parts: 1 sing...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Bullwhip - Single Tail Whip - 140 cm - Black
KiotosMake an unforgettable impression with this impressive whip. The strong whip is made of high quality black leather and features a handy wrist strap/...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger 72 strands of leather - Black
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you? Black whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. Strong grip wrapped with leather....
View full detailsKiotos - Hot Wax XL Candle - For BDSM Play - Black
KiotosMake your fantasy a reality with this body-safe sensual hot wax black candle! Whether you are experimenting with BDSM play or indulging in a hot se...
View full detailsKiotos - Classic Paddle - Black
KiotosBeautiful paddle in black, red or pink that can be used to inflict good punishment. Tight and rigid yet supple, this 34 cm long paddle is very hand...
View full detailsKiotos - Fancy Riding Whip With Double Flap - Brown
KiotosThis whip should not be missing from your kinky collection! Please pleasure your partner, when you dominate him or her with this black PU leather w...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger Bruno with 48 strands
KiotosA bittersweet punishment awaits you with this black whip! The handle has a firm grip, made of durable leather to which a steel ring and wrist strap...
View full detailsPlastic Mini Pinwheel - Black
KiotosThe Plastic Mini Pinwheel Black is a short pinwheel that easily fits in your jacket or pants pocket. This way you always have an interesting toy wi...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Keychain With Leather Whip - Red
KiotosWant to take your whip with you wherever you go? Now you can with this Kiotos Leather keychain. The subtle size hides the true nature of this k...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger 24 strands - Red
KiotosWith this whip, bittersweet punishment awaits you! Red whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. Strong grip wrapped with leather. T...
View full detailsKiotos - Silicone Flogger With Vibrator - vegan friendly
KiotosThis flexible silky silicone flogger whip with vibrator by Kiotos are very flexible and made of high quality silicone. The vibrating handle can als...
View full detailsTriple pinwheel
KiotosThe pinwheel gives a tingling sensation when it rolls over your skin with its sharp points and wheels. The toy has 3 wheels with sharp points that ...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Slapper - Triple Paddle - Black
KiotosThis 3-fold spade slapper is braided with black leather and has a very strong handle. With this sexy toy you will surely want serious spanking or t...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger Handy Whip- Blue
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you? Blue whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. The handy Whip has a sturdy handle...
View full detailsKiotos - PU leather breast harness with sharp spikes
KiotosPU Leather Chest Binder with Sharp Spikes Discover gentle compression and playful stimulation with this binder—without exposing nipples or harsh ed...
View full detailsKiotos - Nylon Bullwhip - Black/Red - 120 cm
KiotosThe Nylon Bullwhip Black & Red is a versatile whip designed for precision and easy use. It has a length of 120 cm and is made of dura...
View full detailsKiotos - Long double paddle Long Slap
KiotosDouble paddle made of double layered leather and small leather loop. The handle is reinforced inside to give it a more stable grip. Extra decorativ...
View full detailsKiotos - Leather Cat-o-Nine Whip - Braided Strands - Black/Blue
KiotosThe Leather Cat-o-Nine Whip with Nine Tails Black & Blue is a high-quality dynamic whip. Featuring nine supple leather braided strand...
View full detailsKiotos - 10 Row Pinwheel - Black
KiotosExperience a new pleasure with our 10-Folded Pinwheel Black, a sensational masterpiece designed for connoisseurs of pleasure. This beautiful pinwhe...
View full detailsKiotos - Silicone Crop/Horse Whip With Hand
KiotosThis handy soft-touch paddle is made of silky smooth, high-quality silicone. Comes with a small hanging chain, you can hang this paddle anywhere. W...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger Bruno with 24 strands
KiotosWith this black whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you! The handle has a firm grip made of durable leather to which a steel ring and wrist strap...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger With 100 Soft Narrow strands
KiotosWith this black whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you! The handle has a firm grip made of durable leather to which a steel ring and wrist strap...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Soft Strands Whip - Flogger - 50 Strands - Black
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you? Black soft whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. The handy Whip has a sturdy ...
View full detailsKiotos - Silicone Paddle - vegan friendly
KiotosThis flexible paddle is made of silky-soft, high-quality silicone. An O-ring allows you to hang this paddle anywhere you want. You can spank hard o...
View full detailsKiotos -Leather Paddle with 3 Straps - Black
KiotoscThis black leather paddle provides extra sensational experience, thanks to the three separate flaps, so the intensity can be more intense than tha...
View full detailsKiotos - Leather Single Tail Whip - Blue/Black - 90 cm
KiotosThis leather whip in black and blue combines elegance with ease of use. At 90 cm long, this toy is perfect for controlled and precise movements, id...
View full detailsKiotos - Black /Red Leather Y-Paddle
KiotosExperience the best of both worlds with the Kiotos Black and Red Leather Y-Paddle, a versatile tool designed for both firm impact and pla...
View full detailsKiotos - Leather Single Tail Whip - Black/Blue - 140 cm
KiotosThe Leather Bullwhip Whip Black & Blue is designed for extra reach and precision. Made of durable black and blue leather and an impressive 140 ...
View full detailsKiotos - Fancy Riding Crop with Double Flap - Black
KiotosThis whip should not be missing from your kinky collection! Please pleasure your partner, when you dominate him or her with this black PU leather w...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Black Flogger Whip
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet experience awaits you! Black paddle with 3 layers made of durable leather for gentle or intense punishment. Strong gr...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Black/Red Flogger With Diamond Pattern Braided Handle
KiotosWith this black / red whip a bittersweet punishment awaits you. The whip is made of leather and has a solid handle which is made of red / black bra...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Sturdy Black Flogger - Whip
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you? Black whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. The handy Whip has a sturdy handl...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Finger Whip 25 cm - Black
KiotosWith this whip, a bittersweet punishment awaits you? Black compact whip made of leather for gentle or intense punishment. The handy Whip has a stur...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Keychain whip 20 cm - Black
KiotosWith the keychain whip in the color red, you will always have a practical and exciting whip at hand! This paddle is manufactured in Europe and made...
View full detailsKiotos - Classic Paddle - Red
KiotosBeautiful paddle in black, red or pink with which to dispense good punishment. Tight and rigid yet pliable this 34 cm long paddle is very manageabl...
View full detailsKiotos - Classic Paddle - Pink
KiotosBeautiful paddle in black, red or pink with which to dispense good punishment. Tight and rigid yet pliable this 34 cm long paddle is very manageabl...
View full detailsImpact play revolves around the deliberate giving and receiving of strikes—from a playful tap to a firm lash of the whip. It is one of the most popular BDSM techniques, and at the same time one of the most nuanced. Rhythm, intensity, location, and anticipation all come together to shape the experience. In this collection, you’ll find whips, paddles, pinwheels, and more—for every skill level and preference.
The basics of impact play
Effective impact play is more than just hitting. It’s about building up: start light, let the body get used to the sensation, and gradually increase the intensity. The submissive enters a state of heightened awareness—each touch is experienced more intensely as the session progresses. Communicate before and during the session about what feels good and what goes too far.
The location of the strike largely determines the intensity. Safe zones for beginners are the buttocks, upper thighs, and shoulder blades—these areas have plenty of muscle and fat tissue to absorb the impact. Always avoid the kidneys (lower back), the tailbone, the back of the knees, and the head.
Buying a whip — which whip is right for you?
A whip is the most iconic impact play instrument and requires the most technique. There are different types:
Flogger has multiple straps that strike simultaneously — the impact is more widely distributed and therefore less sharp than a single-strand whip. Ideal for beginners in impact play. Choose soft materials like suede or leather for your first flogger. Bullwhip is the most technical whip: a long, single rope that, with the right technique, makes a hard, sharp sound and has a precise point of impact. This is an advanced instrument that requires a lot of practice. Crops are short, stiff whips with a small striking surface—precise and controlled, easy to handle.
Paddles — wide, direct, effective
Paddles are the ideal beginner’s tool for impact play. The wide striking surface distributes the force over a large area, making the impact manageable. Paddles come in leather, wood, and plastic—each material provides a different sensation. Leather has a warmer, duller impact; wood is sharper and more direct. Always start with light taps and build up.
Hand spanking
Never forget that the hand is the most personal impact play implement. Direct skin contact, immediate feedback for the dominant, and the intimacy of touch—many people find hand spanking more intense than any other implement. Cup the hand slightly to provide a deep, warm sensation; a flat hand delivers a sharper, harder feel.
Canes — for advanced users
A cane delivers a narrow, sharp impact that feels different from a flogger or paddle. The thin striking surface concentrates the force entirely along a single line—creating an intense, lingering sensation. Caning requires technique and experience: hitting too hard or in the wrong spot can quickly go too far. Practice the motion first without hitting anyone.
Pinwheels and prickle rollers — from pain to tingling
Pinwheels and prickle rollers fall into the impact play category but feel fundamentally different: the small points provide a tingling, prickling sensation that is pleasant with light pressure and becomes sharp with firm pressure. Ideal to combine with a blindfold — the body cannot anticipate the intensity of the stimulation.
Tickling and caressing — the gentle side of impact
Feathers, brushes, and soft tassels are the counterpart to harder impact play. Combined with a blindfold, a gentle touch creates a surprise effect that feels completely different from what you expect. Alternate between gentle and firm stimuli for a varied session.
Safety in impact play
A few hard and fast rules: never strike the kidneys, the tailbone, the back of the knees, the spine, or the head. Check the skin regularly—redness is normal, bruises are acceptable, open wounds are a stop sign. Always use a safeword and respect it immediately. After a more intense session: aftercare. The submissive needs warmth, touch, and rest after an impact session.
Frequently Asked Questions About Impact Play
Where do I start with impact play?
Start with a paddle or a soft flogger made of suede. Always start light and build up. Communicate about intensity preferences before the session and use a safeword.
Is impact play dangerous?
Provided you respect the safe zones and communicate sufficiently, impact play is safe. Always avoid the kidneys, tailbone, and head. Master your instrument before using it.
What is the difference between a flogger and a whip?
A flogger has multiple straps that strike simultaneously—wider impact, less sharp. A whip has a single rope or strap and delivers a much more precise, sharper strike. Floggers are more accessible for beginners.
What is aftercare in impact play?
After an impact session, the receiver needs time and attention to calm down. Warmth (a blanket), physical contact, water, and positive communication are the foundation of good aftercare. Never skip this.
Read more about impact play
- Everything about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- Spanking: a spanking for enthusiasts
- The paradox of pain in BDSM