Double Ended Dildos

A double dildo has two ends—for use by two partners at the same time, for double penetration, or for solo use where both ends are used alternately. The shaft is long enough to accommodate two people at once. In this overview, you’ll find double dildos made of silicone and TPE, in standard and XXL sizes. Also check out the full selection of all specialty dildos or the strap-on dildos for penetration via a harness.

What is a double dildo?

A double dildo — also known as a double-ended dildo — is a penetration toy with two usable ends. The shaft is typically 35 to 50 centimeters long so that two people can use it simultaneously from opposite ends. Both ends are shaped like a dildo head. A double dildo has no motor—stimulation comes from its shape and movement. “Double dildo for men” refers to use involving a man; the toy itself is not gender-specific. “DP dildo” stands for “double penetration dildo” and partially overlaps with this category.

Why are double dildos popular?

A double dildo allows for simultaneous stimulation of two partners without a harness or additional aids. For lesbian couples, it is a popular way to experience penetrative sex. For mixed-gender couples, it is suitable for double penetration or for simultaneous anal and vaginal use. When used solo, a long double dildo allows you to use both ends alternately. XXL double dildos and extreme double dildos are popular choices for those seeking maximum length.

Types and Variants

Classic double dildos

A straight shaft measuring 35 to 45 centimeters with two identical ends. Made of flexible silicone or TPE so the shaft bends with use by two people. This is the best-selling type of double dildo. Suitable for use by two women or for solo double penetration.

XXL double dildos

Models measuring 45 centimeters and longer give both users more room to play. “XXL double dildo” and “double dildo XXL” are the most searched terms in this segment. Flexibility is especially important with longer lengths—a 50-centimeter model that’s too stiff is difficult to handle. Choose silicone over hard ABS for this size.

Double dildos for couples

“Couple double dildo” refers to models specifically designed for use by two people. They sometimes feature a slight curve in the middle that makes use more comfortable for both partners at the same time. Also check out the partner vibrators for motorized toys designed for couples.

Double penetration dildos

Double penetration dildos differ in shape from classic double dildos: they are designed for use by a single person for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. This type also falls under the double penetration dildos category—check out that overview for more models.

Double dildos with suction cups

Models with a suction cup on one end can be attached hands-free to a smooth surface. The other end is then free to use. Suitable for solo use in various positions. Also check out the hands-free vibrators for more suction cup models.

What should you look for when buying a double dildo?

Length is the most important specification: too short and both users won’t be able to find a comfortable position; too long and the shaft is difficult to handle. 40 to 45 centimeters is a common size for use by two people. Flexibility: a shaft that’s too stiff can bend uncomfortably when used by two people. Silicone is softer and more flexible than ABS plastic. Material: Silicone is skin-safe and non-porous—the best choice. Use water-based lubricant.

Frequently Asked Questions About Double Dildos

How do you use a double dildo with two people?

Both partners position themselves facing each other—lying down or kneeling—and each take one end. The shaft bends in the middle as you move closer. Use plenty of lubricant on both ends. Communicate about pace and depth. A flexible shaft makes synchronized movement easier than a rigid one.

Is a double dildo also suitable for solo use?

Yes. Using one end internally while the other vibrates externally or serves as a handle is a common solo application. A double dildo is also suitable for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration by a single person—provided the model is suitable in terms of length and flexibility.

Can a double dildo also be used anally?

Only if the end being used has a wide base that prevents slipping, or if the shaft is long enough to always be kept outside. A classic double dildo without a safety base is not safe for full anal use on one end. Check out the anal dildosfor models with a safety base.

What is the difference between a double dildo and a double penetration dildo?

A double dildo is designed for two people at the same time. A double penetration dildo is designed for one person who wants to be penetrated vaginally and anally at the same time—the two arms are fixed in a specific ratio to each other. Check out the double penetration dildos for that type.