Dildos

Dildos come in just about every conceivable shape, size, and material. From lifelike, realistic dildos to smooth glass or metal models, and from compact and flexible to large and daring. In this collection, you’ll find dildos for a wide range of preferences and experience levels. Use the overview below to explore the different types and more easily find the dildo that’s right for you. For other toys, check out our complete selection of sex toys for women.

What is a dildo?

A dildo is a sex toy primarily intended for penetration. Unlike a vibrator, a traditional dildo does not have a motor: stimulation comes from its movement, shape, diameter, length, firmness, and texture. There are both anatomically shaped and abstract dildos, as well as models specifically designed for G-spot stimulation, anal use, or use with a strap-on harness.
Which dildo feels best is very personal. Some people prefer a soft, flexible, and realistic shape, while others opt for a firm dildo made of glass or metal. Size also plays an important role. Those with little experience can start with a more modest size, while experienced users may specifically seek out a larger or thicker dildo.

What types of dildos are there?

Realistic dildos

A realistic dildo has the recognizable anatomical shape of a penis, often with details such as a sculpted glans, veins, and sometimes a scrotum. They come in both firm and very soft, flexible versions, in various sizes, materials, and skin tones. If you’re primarily looking for a lifelike shape and appearance, you’ll find the complete selection in our collection of realistic dildos.

Glass dildos

A glass dildo combines a hard, smooth surface with a unique look. Many models are made of borosilicate glass and can also be used for temperature play. Because of the sturdy material, relatively little pressure is needed to clearly feel the movements. You can find more background information in our blog about using glass dildos.

Metal dildos

Metal dildos are sturdy, heavy, and very smooth. Their weight provides a very different experience than a flexible dildo and allows for targeted pressure. Metal is also well-suited for temperature play. With larger metal models, pay attention not only to length and diameter but also to weight.

G-spot dildos

A G-spot dildo usually has a curved shaft or a distinctly shaped tip that allows for targeted pressure on the front wall of the vagina. The shape is more important here than a realistic appearance. There are both compact G-spot dildos and longer, sturdier models.

Dildos with suction cups

A dildo with a suction cup can be attached to a suitable smooth and flat surface. This allows for hands-free use and makes it easier to try out different positions. Suction cups are found on all kinds of dildos, including realistic, large, and fantasy models. Always check before use to make sure the suction cup is securely attached to the surface.

Double dildos

A double dildo has two usable ends and, depending on the design, can be used solo or with a partner. Some double dildos are long and flexible, while other models combine different shapes or diameters at both ends.

Strap-on dildos

If you want to use a dildo with a harness, the shape of the base and compatibility with the harness are important. In our collection of strap-on dildos, you’ll find harnesses, sets, and various types of dildos designed for strap-on use. Want to know more about pegging? Then read our explanation of what is pegging?.

XXL and large dildos

For those specifically looking for more length or girth, there are large and XXL dildos. It’s not just the length that matters here: diameter, insertable length, shape, and flexibility are key factors in determining how challenging a model is. In our blog post about XXL dildos, you can read more about choosing and using larger sizes.

Anal dildos

Not every dildo is suitable for anal use. An anal dildo has a safe design with a sufficiently wide base or other reliable stop that prevents the toy from sliding all the way in. For anal use, therefore, choose a model that’s explicitly designed for that purpose.

Monster and fantasy dildos

If you’re not looking for a lifelike shape, you can opt for a monster or fantasy dildo. These models feature unique shapes, textures, colors, and sometimes extreme sizes. They are thus the opposite of the anatomical appearance of a realistic dildo.

Which dildo material should you choose?

The material has a significant impact on how a dildo feels. Flexible materials move more in sync with the body, while glass and metal are completely rigid and provide direct pressure. Even within silicone and other soft materials, there are significant differences in flexibility and surface texture.
Therefore, always check the material specifications and care instructions for each individual product. For a silicone dildo, it’s best to use a water-based lubricant, unless the manufacturer explicitly states that another combination is suitable.

What size dildo is right for you?

When comparing dildos, don’t just look at the total length. The Insertable length and diameter say much more about the size you’ll actually experience during use. A larger diameter, in particular, can make a significant difference.
If you have little experience, it’s usually wise to start with a comfortable size and take your time discovering what feels good. If, on the other hand, you’re specifically looking for more girth or length, you can gradually choose larger sizes. For more information, read our comprehensive guide How to Choose the Right Dildo Size?.

Using and Caring for a Dildo

Use plenty of suitable lubricant and gradually build up the pace and depth. Clean a dildo before and after use according to the manufacturer’s care instructions, and let it dry thoroughly before storing it. The appropriate cleaning method depends on the material and construction.
Want to learn more about types, materials, use, and care? Then check out our comprehensive guide to the world of dildos.

Frequently Asked Questions About Dildos

What’s the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?

A traditional dildo has no motor and is moved by the user. A vibrator produces vibrations using a built-in motor. There are also toys that combine both features. Check out our vibrating dildos.

What’s a good dildo for beginners?

For a first dildo, one with a diameter that isn’t too large is usually easier to experiment with at a leisurely pace. Also consider flexibility, insertable length, and shape. A smooth or slightly flexible model may be more accessible than a very thick, hard, or heavily textured design. Ultimately, the right choice depends on personal preference.

Can any dildo be used anally?

No. For safe anal use, a dildo must have a sufficiently wide base or other reliable stop that prevents the toy from sliding all the way in. Therefore, it’s best to use a model that’s explicitly designed for anal use.

Can any dildo be used with a strap-on harness?

No. With a traditional O-ring harness, the dildo must have a suitable base, and its diameter must fit the O-ring. Some dildos are specifically designed for strap-on use. Therefore, always check the dimensions and compatibility of both the dildo and the harness.