Collars
Kiotos - Luxury PU Leather Collar With Name Plate SLAVE
KiotosHigh quality PU leather collar with SLAVE name tag made of PVC. The perfect tag for your submissive slave. Easy to clean and thanks to the snaps yo...
View full detailsKiotos - Classic Leather Women's Collar With Buckle And O-Ring - Black
KiotosElegant collar for the classic lady!A must have for any slave who knows her place and wants to show her submission.Made of genuine Italian leather ...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Leather Collar 5 cm Lined - Black/Red
KiotosWill you show who's boss? This tough, leather collar from Kiotos has an exciting look. On the attached d-ring you can tie chains or ropes and f...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Leather Collar 6.5 cm Padded - Black
KiotosThis tough, leather collar from Kiotos, is finished with studs, giving it an exciting look. On the attached d-ring you can tie chains or ropes an...
View full detailsCollar large and Luxury Leather
KiotosA beautiful looking collar for very special occasions. European-made collar from Kiotos made of high quality luxurious and soft leather. A d-ring i...
View full detailsDeLuxe Silicone Collar - Black
KiotosThis Deluxe Collar gives you a luxurious feeling because of the smooth and silky silicone Material of the collar. It comes with a beautiful silver ...
View full detailsKiotos Leather -Leather Collar 5 cm Padded - Black
KiotosDo you want to show who's boss? This tough, leather collar from Kiotos has an exciting look. On the attached d-ring you can tie chains or ropes and...
View full detailsKiotos - Contoured Black Leather Posture Collar with D-Ring
KiotosThe Contoured Black Leather Collar with D-Ring combines sleek design with practical functionality. Made of sturdy black leather, this col...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Collar with Large O-Ring
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather Collar with Large O-Ring has a timeless and functional design. Made of sturdy black leather, this collar feature...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Collar Deluxe with O-Ring and Multi-D Rings
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather Deluxe Collar with O-Ring and Multiple D-Rings is a luxurious accessory that is both visually appealing and practical. Mad...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Spiked Collar with O-Ring
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather Collar with Spikes and O-Ring is made of sturdy black leather and features a number of evenly spaced spikes for ...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Slender Collar with Multi-Metal Eyelets
KiotosThis sleek Kiotos Black Leather Collar with Multiple Metal Eyelets is a stylish accessory for those who love subtle elegance with a tough edge. Mad...
View full detailsKiotos - Lined Leather Collar with Small O-ring - Black
KiotosThis padded collar is made from high-quality black leather and features silver hardware. The lockable collar comes with a small padlock and keys. T...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar Basic - Black
KiotosThis black collar can be easily adjusted to different sizes by means of the strap fastener. Dominate your partner or use it yourself to be the perf...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Chain Collar - Black
KiotosSexy chain collar with 3 rows of stainless steel chains finished with a nice black leather strap. The chain can be adjusted in 6 sizes. Easy to adj...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Collar with Multiple D-Rings
KiotosDe KiotosZwarte Leren Collar met Meerdere D-Ringenis een stevige en functionele halsband, perfect voor rollenspellen of als gothic statement piece....
View full detailsKiotos - Black/Red Leather Collar with Large O-Ring
KiotosThe Kiotos Black and Red Leather Collar with Large O-Ring is an eye-catching accessory that combines vibrant colors with practical functi...
View full detailsKiotos - Basic Collar of Leather with Metal D-Ring and Buckle - Black/Red
KiotosThis sexy collar is black on the outside and red leather on the inside. To hang naughty toys from the collar, a handy D-ring is attached. Made in E...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar With Nipple Clamps
KiotosA stylish collar for a stylish woman. This set by Kiotos consists of a collar with an adjustable strap and two chains with a nipple clamp at each e...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar with Nipple Clamps - Black
KiotosA beautiful collar for a very special woman. This set from Kiotos consists of a collar, made in Europe from high quality leather that you can easil...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar with chain and red leather
KiotosSexy collar with 3 rows of stainless steel chains finished with a beautiful red leather strap. The chain can be adjusted in 6 sizes. Easy to adjust...
View full detailsKiotos - Leather Collar - Blue/Black - Gold Hardware
KiotosIntroducing the genuine leather BDSM collar with deep blue lacquer finish, the ultimate accessory for anyone looking to add a touch of sophisticati...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Lace-Up Corset Collar
KiotosBlack Leather High Collar with Lace-Up Closure – Stylish and ComfortableThis black leather collar with lace-up closure is made of sturdy leather, a...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Collar with 7 Statement Rings
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather Collar with 7 Statement Rings is a striking accessory that makes a strong impression. Made of sturdy black leath...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather High Neck Collar with Zipper
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather High Collar with Zipper is a bold BDSM accessory. Made of sturdy black leather, this high design offers full cov...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Spiked Collar with Double Rainbow O-Ring
KiotosThe Kiotos Black Leather Collar with Spikes and Double Rainbow O-Ring is a striking accessory that combines tough design with colorful detail. Made...
View full detailsKiotos - Black/Blue Leather Collar with Large O-Ring
KiotosThe Kiotos Black and Blue Leather Collar with Large O-Ring is an eye-catching accessory that combines vibrant colors with practical funct...
View full detailsKiotos - High Posture Collar with Bolts and Nuts - Leather - Black
KiotosThis rugged leather padded collar Spikey Nuts is a fine extreme collar that forces your subject to keep their neck long and stretched. Made of high...
View full detailsKiotos - Rubber Collar with Buckle - Black
KiotosGive your look a sleek, minimalist twist with the Black Rubber Collar. Made of durable rubber, this collar combines comfort with a rugged look. Wit...
View full detailsKiotos BDSM - Collar with Rhinestones - SEXY - Black
KiotosThis elegant collar is made of black PVC and features silver accents and small gemstone embellishments that spell out the word "SEXY."Equipped with...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar With Leather Bowtie - Your Servant - Black
KiotosLet your sub wear this collar at a party or other exciting event. By having your sub wear this collar you are showing who or what is your property....
View full detailsKiotos - O-Collar
KiotosWhere are you taking your submissive? Very stylish looking collar by Kiotos, made in Europe and made of nice looking and durable leather. At the fr...
View full detailsIn the BDSM world, a collar is more than just an accessory. It is a symbol—of the dynamic between dominant and submissive, of trust, of the role someone assumes. From a subtle everyday collar made of thin leather to a heavy steel playroom collar: each type carries its own meaning and suits a different context. In this collection, you’ll find BDSM collars in leather, metal, and neoprene—for everyday use, for the playroom, and everything in between.
Buying a BDSM collar — types and materials
Leather collars are the classic choice: warm, flexible, they mold to the neck and are comfortable for extended wear. Leather collars are available in various widths — narrow collars are more discreet and suitable for daily use, while wide collars are more imposing and make a stronger statement. Metal collars are heavier and provide a constant physical sense of presence. Steel collars with locks are popular as a more permanent symbol of the D/s dynamic. Neoprene collars are light and comfortable—less traditional in appearance but pleasant for extended wear. Posture collars are wide, rigid collars that lift the chin and guide posture—for a more intense physical experience of control.
Collaring as a ritual
In many D/s relationships, putting on the collar has ritual significance: it marks the beginning of a session and the assumption of a role. Removing the collar marks the end. This creates a clear framework for both partners—a mental and physical boundary between daily life and the dynamics of the playroom. Some couples also view the “collaring ceremony” as a symbolic milestone in their relationship.
Buying a BDSM collar for daily use
Daily collars are designed to be discreet—they look like an unusual necklace or a wide bracelet around the neck. Thin leather, simple metal, without explicit BDSM features. They carry meaning for those in the know, without outsiders recognizing them. Choose a lightweight, comfortable model with a secure but discreet clasp.
Pairing with a leash
In the playroom, a collar is often paired with a leash: the dominant physically leads the submissive on the leash. This reinforces the power dynamic in a direct, physical way. Choose a collar with a sturdy D-ring attachment point if you want to use a leash.
Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM Collars
What does a collar mean in BDSM?
A collar symbolizes the D/s dynamic between dominant and submissive. Wearing a collar typically means that someone is assuming the submissive role and acknowledging the dominant as the one in control. The exact meaning varies by relationship.
What is the difference between an everyday collar and a playroom collar?
Everyday collars are narrow, light, and discreet—they look like jewelry. Playroom collars are heavier, wider, and more explicit. Many couples have both: the everyday collar as a subtle symbol, and the playroom collar for sessions.
How do I choose the right collar size?
Measure your neck circumference and add 2–3 cm for comfort. Most collars are adjustable via a buckle or snap button—check the adjustment range in the product description.
Can I wear a BDSM collar every day?
Yes, provided the model is suitable for that. Choose a light, narrow collar made of soft leather or neoprene for daily use. Heavy metal collars are less suitable for all-day wear.
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