BDSM Toys & Bondage Accessories
Brutus - Stealth - Chastity Cage - Polycarbonate - Clear
BrutusLock Him Up with the BRUTUS Polycarbonate Chastity CageBRUTUS Stealth Chastity Cage - Durable, Comfortable, and SecureDiscover the ultimate chastit...
View full detailsBrutus - Anal Douche - ABS - Intimate Shower Nozzle
BrutusGet ready for great sex with this shower head from BRUTUS!Made of ABS plastic, this high-quality BRUTUS shower head is the perfect tool for deep, i...
View full detailsBrutus - Dilator - Silicone Sound Set - Screw You! - 3 Pcs.
BrutusDiscover the Brutus Screw You Ribbed Silicone Sound SetFor the ultimate experience in urethral stimulation, Brutus introduces the new Screw You rib...
View full detailsBrutus - Black Silicone Nipple Suckers - Available in 2 Sizes
BrutusStart your adventure with nipple play and let these nipple suckers do the work for you. Place them on your nipples and squeeze them to make them su...
View full detailsBrutus - Metal Adjustable Black Clover Clamps with Chain
BrutusBRUTUS presents these metal nipple clamps in its Steel Series.These metal nipple clamps from the BRUTUS Steel Series are tough and sturdy. The pinc...
View full detailsBrutus - Silicone Dilator Set - Nailed It! - 3 Pcs.
BrutusMeet the new Nail It silicone sound set from Brutus, consisting of three different pieces of sounding gear with a smooth texture. Each piece is the...
View full detailsBrutus - Trembler - Dilator - Silicone Vibrating Sound
BrutusFor the experienced lover of sounds who wants to push boundaries, Brutus has developed the vibrating sound tool, The Trembler. By adding vibrations...
View full detailsBrutus - Crocodile - Metal Adjustable Nipple Clamps - Black
BrutusBRUTUS Steel Series Nipple Clamps for Intense BDSM StimulationDiscover the BRUTUS Steel Series nipple clamps, designed for tough and firm sensation...
View full detailsBrutus - Cyborg Chastity Cage - Black/Red
BrutusFour sizes of cock rings are included with the Cyborg Chastity Cage for a secure and comfortable fit. Make sure the cock ring is tight enough to ma...
View full detailsBrutus - Anal Douche - Intimate Shower - The Shower Bulb Enema - 224 ml
BrutusExperience Carefree Pleasure with the Black Silicone Anal Shower from BRUTUSEnjoy anal or vaginal sex effortlessly with this black silicone anal sh...
View full detailsBrutus - Sling Stand Kit - Includes Sling + Travel Bag
BrutusThis BRUTUS Sling Stand Frame Kit is an über-complete package that includes everything - and more - you need to get started. No more drilling ...
View full detailsBrutus - Dilator - Silicone Sound - Pee Hole Plug
BrutusDiscover the BRUTUS Pee Tube - For the Ultimate Urethral Sensation!For lovers of urethral sounds, BRUTUS has introduced the Pee Tube, made from the...
View full detailsBrutus - Leather Lockable Ankle Cuffs - Black/Red
BrutusLeather ankle cuffs from the BRUTUS Leather CollectionWith a strap made of sturdy and durable saddle leather, but lined with soft material for extr...
View full detailsBrutus - Nipple Clamps - Adjustable Nipple Clamps with Chain - BITE Heavy Nipple Clamps Black
BrutusNipple clamps from the BRUTUS Steel SeriesSqueezing and pulling experience for erotic nipple stimulationAdjustable clamps: Adjust the pressure for ...
View full detailsBrutus - Alpha - Chastity Cage - Adjustable to size - Clear
BrutusLock it up! BRUTUS Polycarbonate Chastity CageThe BRUTUS Alpha Cock Cage is a custom-adjustable chastity cage made of durable polycarbonate. This c...
View full detailsBrutus - Neoprene Blind Face Fucker Hood - Without Eyeholes - Black/Red
BrutusRemain completely anonymousDeprives vision for added submissionComfortable and stretchy 2 mm neopreneStylish black and finished with colored detail...
View full detailsBrutus - Twister Nipple Suckers - Two Sizes - Get BIGGER - Two Sizes
BrutusPremium Quality Set Nipple Cylinders by BRUTUS. Expand your nipples and make them more sensitive with a simple twist. No hand pump required! Increa...
View full detailsBrutus - Crocodile - Adjustable Nipple Clamps with Chain - Silver
BrutusBRUTUS Steel Series Nipple Clamps for Intense BDSM StimulationDiscover the BRUTUS Steel Series nipple clamps, designed for tough and firm sensation...
View full detailsBrutus - Ergo - Chastity Cage - Black
BrutusThe Brutus Ergo Chastity Cage is exactly what you’d expect from a sleekly designed chastity cage: functional, discreet, and surprisingly comfortabl...
View full detailsBrutus - Clicklock - Chastity Cage - Transparent
BrutusThe Brutus Clicklock chastity cage is a modern-designed chastity cage. This model is all about ease of use. One click and everything is secure—exac...
View full detailsBrutus - Orb - Chastity Cage - Transparent
BrutusThe Brutus Orb chastity cage offers a completely different approach. While traditional models use tubes or open structures, this version features a...
View full detailsBrutus - Wide Leather Paddle - Black
BrutusThis wide leather paddle is all about volume, weight, and a full sensation. No sharp pricks, but deep, resonant blows that spread through the body ...
View full detailsBrutus - Neoprene Alien Gas Mask Hood - Black
BrutusBRUTUS Neoprene Alien Gas Mask HoodThe BRUTUS Neoprene Alien Gas Mask Hood provides an anonymous, sleek, and striking look for fetish play. The des...
View full detailsBrutus Vegan Puppy Collar - Black/Blue
BrutusStrong and comfortable puppy collarMade from high-quality vegan leatherAdjustable strap for a perfect fitD-ring at the front to attach a leashFits ...
View full detailsBrutus - Neoprene Blind Face Fucker Hood - Without Eyeholes - Black/Yellow
BrutusRemain completely anonymousDeprives vision for added submissionComfortable and stretchy 2 mm neopreneStylish black and finished with colored detail...
View full detailsBrutus - Neoprene Face Fucker Hood - With Eyeholes - Black
BrutusRemain completely anonymousEye openings to preserve your visionComfortable and stretchy 2 mm neopreneStylish black and finished with colored detail...
View full detailsBrutus - Short Leather Bondage Leash - Black/Yellow
BrutusSpice up your sex life with this short leather bondage leash from the BRUTUS Leather CollectionYour sub will surely follow you without any resistan...
View full detailsBrutus - Leather Spiked Hellraiser Paddle
BrutusSturdy leather paddle with metal studs from the BRUTUS Leather Collection.28 cm long, 8 cm wide. With reinforced handle and hanging eye.With spicy ...
View full detailsBrutus - Leather Flogger with Steel Handle
BrutusThe BRUTUS Large Leather Flogger is a sleek and seductive flogger for you that can gently and tantalisingly caress as well as deliver hard blows.Th...
View full detailsBrutus - Leash - Leather Dog leash with Chain -
BrutusLeather dog leash with chain from the BRUTUS Leather CollectionClick the musketon to your sub or puppy's collar and take him or her with youSimple ...
View full detailsBrutus - Leather Lockable Collar - Black/Yellow
BrutusLeather collar from the BRUTUS Leather CollectionWith strap made of tough and sturdy saddle leather, but lovely soft lined so nice and comfyWith lo...
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Brutus - Leather Ankle Restraints - Black
BrutusLeather ankle cuffs from the BRUTUS Leather CollectionWith belt made of tough and sturdy saddle leather, but wonderfully soft lined so nice and com...
View full detailsBrutus - Anal Douche Enema Bulb 310 ml - GET CLEAN Soft Enema Bulb
BrutusSoft PVC Rubber Enema or Clysmabol for Intimate Cleansing by BRUTUS Get ready for action! This BRUTUS GET CLEAN enema or clysmabol is ideal for bot...
View full detailsBrutus - Get BIGGER - Premium Nipple Cylinders
BrutusIncrease the sensitivity and size of your nipples with premium nipple cylinders from BRUTUSEnhance your nipple sensation with these premium nipple ...
View full detailsBrutus - Clothespin Nipple Clamps on Chain
BrutusBRUTUS presents: Steel Series Nipple ClampsThese metal nipple clamps from the BRUTUS Steel Series are tough and sturdy. The pinching and pulling ex...
View full detailsBrutus - Blinders - Silicone Blindfold - Black
BrutusBrutus Blinders: The Ultimate BlindfoldFeatures:Silky Soft Silicone: Made from Brutus' signature premium silicone for ultimate comfort and qualityF...
View full detailsBrutus - Adjustable Nipple Clamps with Chain - Silver - BITE Heavy Nipple Clamps Silver
BrutusNipple clamps from the BRUTUS Steel SeriesFeatures:Erotic Stimulation: Squeezing and pulling experience for intense nipple stimulationSturdy Chain:...
View full detailsBrutus - Airmesh - Chastity Cage - Clear
BrutusLock it up with the BRUTUS Airmesh Cock Cage, an adjustable chastity cage made of durable plastic. This cage is perfectly adjustable to personal si...
View full detailsBrutus - Chastity Cage - Clear Penis Cage - Shark
BrutusLock Him Up! - BRUTUS Polycarbonate Chastity CageFeatures of the BRUTUS Shark Cock Cage:Durable Polycarbonate: Made of high-quality and sturdy poly...
View full detailsBrutus - Chastity Cage - Penis Cage - With Skull
BrutusProduct description:Lock Him Up!Made from a durable zinc alloy, the BRUTUS chastity cage offers the perfect combination of comfort and security. Th...
View full detailsBrutus - Volt - Electro Chastity Cage - Penis Cage - Transparent
BrutusThe BRUTUS Volt Cage is a unique chastity cage designed for the adventurous user. This chastity cage offers an exciting combination of co...
View full detailsBrutus - Silicone Anal Douche with Shut-Off Valve - Black
Sport FuckerThe Brutus Silicone Anal Douche with Shut-Off Valve is designed for those who value comfortable and controlled cleansing. Thanks to its flexible si...
View full detailsBrutus - Airhole - Chastity Cage - Transparent
BrutusThe Brutus Airhole chastity cage is a transparent model that combines classic restraint with a smart focus on ventilation: small openings that allo...
View full detailsBrutus - Knob - Chastity Cage - Black
BrutusThe Brutus Knob chastity cage has no excess length, no room for slack—just a short, rounded shape that keeps everything snugly in place.The distinc...
View full detailsBrutus - Doorman - Small Chastity Cage - Transparent
BrutusThe Brutus Doorman is a compact chastity cage. This model immediately stands out for its minimalist design and clever construction, where every mil...
View full detailsBrutus - Cock Cushion - Soft Chastity Penis Sleeve - Transparent
BrutusThe Brutus Cock Cushion is a soft chastity sleeve designed for a more subtle form of restraint, with a focus on the sensation of being enveloped. N...
View full detailsBrutus - Leather Paddle with Holes - Black
BrutusThe Brutus – Leather Paddle with Holes is designed for impact play enthusiasts who appreciate variety and precision. This paddle combines a wide st...
View full detailsFor us, BDSM isn’t just a product category—it’s the reason we started erotiekvoordeel.nl in the first place. As a couple who are actively involved in the BDSM scene ourselves, we know what a difference quality toys and accessories make to the quality of your play. In this collection, you’ll find everything you need for bondage, impact play, electrosex, chastity, and more—curated with expertise, not just pulled from a catalog.
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s a broad spectrum of play that revolves around two things: trust and control. Whether you’re unboxing a bondage set for the first time or have been setting up your own dungeon for years—this collection has what you need.
BDSM for beginners: start here
New to BDSM? Start small and build up. Most people start with soft bondage and sensory stimulation, and discover from there what works for them. A good starting point is a complete bondage set with handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light whip or paddle—everything you need to explore the dynamics of dominance and submission without feeling overwhelmed.
The golden rule in BDSM: agree in advance on what you do and don’t want, use a safeword, and build up the intensity gradually. No toy can replace that communication.
Bondage — the foundation of control
For many people, bondage is the gateway to BDSM. Restricting movement creates a physical and mental tension that enhances the rest of the play. Our bondage collection offers options for every level:
Handcuffs and ankle cuffs are the most accessible starting point. Choose soft, padded versions if you’re just starting out, or sturdy metal ones for a more intense experience. Bondage rope and tape offer more creative freedom—shibari rope made of jute or cotton is both functional and aesthetically pleasing. For those who want to go further: spreader bars secure the body in controlled positions, and bed bondage systems are ideal if you don’t want to use loose rope but still want complete control over your partner.
For a complete setup, there’s also bondage furniture—from bondage benches to full frames—and bondage hooks and hardwareto customize your play area.
Impact play — rhythm, intensity, and sensation
Impact play revolves around building tension through touch. From a gentle, playful tap to a firm lash — you determine the intensity yourself. Important: always start light and communicate during play about what feels good.
Paddles are ideal for beginners: wide striking surfaces distribute the force over a larger area, making the impact manageable. Whips require more technique but deliver an intense, precise sensation. For finer stimulation, there are pinwheels and prickling rollers, and for subtle, sensual touches, the tickling & caressing collection.
Sensory experience — heightening the senses
One of the most powerful BDSM techniques costs virtually nothing: removing one sense heightens all the others. A blindfold makes every touch more intense because you don’t see it coming. Gags limit sound and communication, thereby amplifying the power dynamic. Hoods and masks add a visual and tactile dimension to the play.
Combine a blindfold with nipple clamps — one of our best-selling BDSM products — for an experience where every sensation hits twice as hard. Nipple suckers are a slightly gentler option, ideal for those who find nipple clamps too intense.
Electrosex — control via electricity
Electrosex is the most technical branch of BDSM and has a loyal following for good reason: the sensations are unique and fully adjustable. A tingling sensation that ripples across the skin, muscles contracting involuntarily, intensity that you control with a dial — this is something no other toy can replicate.
Start with an electrosex power unit such as products from Electrastim or E-stim Systems — reliable brands offering precise control over intensity and waveform. Add electrosex clamps for nipple or genital stimulation, or use electrosex penis toys for a whole new dimension. The Violet Wand is a classic: the sparks that fly onto the skin create a tingling, slightly painful sensation that many people find highly addictive.
Important for electrosex: never use electricity above the waist on people with pacemakers or heart conditions, and always use toys specifically designed for electrosex.
Chastity — control over desire
Chastity play is one of the most psychologically intense forms of BDSM. By controlling—or denying—access to orgasm, you build tension that intensifies everything that follows. The submissive wears a chastity cage or chastity belt, while the dominant holds the key. Simple in concept, profound in effect.
For men, there are plastic chastity cages (lightweight, comfortable for extended wear) and metal versions (heavier, more imposing). For women, there are chastity belts that completely restrict access.
Medical play — precision and clinical atmosphere
Medical play explores the dynamics of control and vulnerability in a clinical setting. Speculums, dilators, and cupping sets are the core of this category. The cool, precise atmosphere of medical instruments in a sexual context is a powerful trigger for many people. Always use disposable gloves for hygiene and safety.
Collars and leashes — symbol of the bond
In the BDSM world, a collar is more than an accessory — it is a symbol of the dynamic between dominant and submissive. From everyday wearable leather to sturdy metal variants for the playroom. Pair with a leash for physical guidance during play.
Materials and Care
The quality of materials determines both safety and the experience. These are the most commonly used materials in our BDSM collection:
Leather is the classic: warm, supple, molds to the body, and has a distinctive scent that many people associate inextricably with BDSM. Maintain it with a good leather cleaner to keep it supple. Metal provides a cool, hard sensation and is exceptionally durable. Ideal for handcuffs, chastity cages, and nipple clamps.
Neoprene and nylon are lighter and more comfortable for extended use—great for beginners. Rope (jute, cotton, nylon) each has its own feel: jute is the traditional shibari choice with a rough texture, while cotton is softer and gentler on the skin.
Always clean products after use with a toy cleaner and store them in a dry place away from direct sunlight. Metal and silicone are the easiest to clean; leather requires more care but, with proper maintenance, will last for decades.
Combining for a complete BDSM experience
The true power of BDSM lies in the combination. A few ideas that work well in practice:
Classic bondage session: handcuffs + blindfold + paddle. Simple, effective, accessible for every level. Sensory overload: blindfold + nipple clamps + electrosex clamps — all senses on high alert. Long-term play: chastity cage + collar + leash — a dynamic that can last for hours or days. Impact focus: spreader bar + whip + bondage rope — classic dominance/submission setup.
Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM
What do I need if I want to get started with BDSM?
Start with a complete bondage set that combines handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light paddle. This gives you the basic ingredients for dominance and submission right away, even if you don’t yet know what you specifically enjoy. Then build on that based on what you discover.
Is BDSM safe?
Yes, provided you follow the SSC principles: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Agree on your limits in advance, use a safeword that everyone respects immediately, and always build intensity gradually. Quality products with quick-release fasteners or safety features are not a luxury but a necessity.
What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?
Bondage is one specific technique within the broader BDSM spectrum: restricting movement using rope, cuffs, or tape. BDSM also includes impact play, electrosex, chastity, psychological play, and more. Many people start with bondage and then explore other aspects.
Which BDSM products are suitable for beginners?
Start with soft materials: padded handcuffs, a soft blindfold, a light paddle or flogger, and possibly nipple clamps with adjustable tension. Avoid heavy bondage gear, intense electrosex, or XXL products at first—these require more technique and getting used to.
How do I choose the right chastity cage?
Fit is everything. A cage that’s too small is painful; one that’s too large offers insufficient control. Measure the penis circumference when flaccid and compare this to the ring size of the cage. Start with a slightly larger size if you’re new to wearing a chastity cage. Plastic is more comfortable for long-term use; metal is more intense and noticeable.
What is electrosex and is it safe?
Electrosex uses controlled electrical impulses for sexual stimulation. Provided you use products specifically designed for this purpose (such as Electrastim or E-stim systems) and follow the instructions, it is safe. Never use standard household electricity or devices not designed for electrosex.
Read more about BDSM
- 7 things I wish I’d known before entering the BDSM scene
- Bondage: an art of trust, control, and pleasure
- All about bondage — comprehensive guide
- All about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Shibari bondage rope: which rope should you choose?
- Electro sex for beginners
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- The paradox of pain in BDSM