BDSM Toys & Bondage Accessories
Sevanda - Chastity Cage - Gold Colored Penis Cage With Three Different Size Rings
SevandaSpecifications: Material: Metal Color: Gold Weight: 270 grams Safe for the body: Yes Diameter: Cage: 40 mm / Rings: 40/45/50 mm Length: 95 mm Ins...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Exclusive Leather Blindfold With Gold Buckle
Liebe SeeleAbout Dark SecretDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with sexiness and mystery in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leather and gold-...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret Exclusive Leather Thigh Cuffs With Gold Metal Fittings - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleAbout Dark SecretDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with sexiness and mystery in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leather and gold ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Exclusive Leather Collar With Leash - Gold Metallic Hardware - Black/Gold
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View full detailsLiebe Seele - Rose Gold Memory Exclusive leather flogger - rose gold
Liebe SeeleCharacteristics:Luxury handle of Rose Gold Leather and Black LeatherBlack leather strands;Dimensions:Total Length: 17.3''Whip Length: 11.2''Total w...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret Exclusive Curved collar with leash and gold metal hardware - Black/gold
Liebe SeeleDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with sexiness and mystery in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leather and gold metal form a fant...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss - Narrow Collar - Choker - With Gold Letters BITCH - Luxury And Exclusive Design - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleThe perfect choker exists, the ideal combination of genuine leather and a shiny gold word that clearly shows who is the absolute boss.Spangeless.Ea...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Leather Choker With Gold Letters SLUT - Luxurious And Exclusive Design - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleThe perfect choker exists, the ideal combination of genuine leather and a shiny gold word that clearly shows who is the absolute boss.Spangeless.Ea...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Exclusive Leather Handcuffs With Gold Metallic Fittings - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleAbout Dark SecretDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with a sexy and mysterious character in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leathe...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss - Luxury Collar With Big Gold Letters SLUT - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleHighlights: Luxe uitstraling door het zwarte runderleder dat is voorzien van een struisvogel-leer-look en de gouden details. Glanzende gouden SLUT...
View full detailsBlack Label - Weenie Locker - Chastity Cage - Black/Gold
Black LabelBlack Label: a discreet, stylish chastity cage designed specifically for the smallest sizes. This matte black penis cage with brushed gold accents ...
View full detailsSevanda - Stag - Nipple Clamps with Deer Antlers and Pendant - Gold
SevandaIncrease your intimate moments with the Sevanda Stag Adjustable Nipple Clamps Set. This beautifully designed set combines elegance and functionalit...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss - Riding Crop - Heart-Shaped Leather Tip - Luxurious and Exclusive Design - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleHighlights: Luxe uitstraling door het zwarte runderleer dat is voorzien van een struisvogel-leer-look en de gouden details. Deluxe lederen rijzwee...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret Exclusive Leather Ankle Cuffs With Gold Metal Fittings - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleAbout Dark SecretDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with sexiness and mystery in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leather and gold ...
View full detailsRimba - Nipple Clamps with Rhinestone Pendant - Gold
RimbaRimba Bondage Play – Nipple Clamps with Rhinestone Pendant – GoldLet elegance and seduction merge with the Rimba Bondage Play Nipple Clamps with Rh...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Nipple Clamps - Heart-Shaped with Rhinestones - Gold
Liebe SeeleBeautiful heart-shaped nipple clamps, made from high-quality material, excellent quality, amazing and unique. Easy to attach and detach thanks to t...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Exclusive Silicone Ball Gag With Leather Straps - Black/Gold
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View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Exclusive Leather Hogtie Bondage Tool With Gold Metallic Fittings - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleAbout Dark SecretDignity, elegance and extravagance are combined with a sexy and mysterious character in this exclusive BDSM line. The black leathe...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Rose Gold Memory Exclusive Leather Paddle - rose gold
Liebe SeeleThe finest quality rose gold leather androse gold hardware is a perfect match, The Rose Gold collection contains ten fantastic must-have items, sui...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Luxury Nipple Clamps with Clover Ball - Pink/Gold
Liebe SeeleLiebe Seele – Luxury Nipple Clamps with Clover Ball – Pink/GoldThese pink and gold nipple clamps from Liebe Seele have a refined, almost playful ch...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Crocodile Noir - Narrow Leather Collar with Crocodile Print - Black
Liebe SeeleLiebe Seele – Crocodile Noir – Narrow Leather Collar with Crocodile Print – BlackDo you dare to embrace the dark elegance of the Liebe Seele – Croc...
View full detailsSnapshot - #crossedtheline - Cross Shape Nipple Stickers with Collar and Chains - Gold
SnapshotWelcome to Snapshots, the brand for bold and sexy outfits that bring out your unique style! Whether you want to make the night pop at the club, hav...
View full detailsLiebe Seele Demon's Kiss Collar – Luxury Leather Collar with Gold O-ring
Liebe SeeleThe Liebe Seele Demon's Kiss Collar is a luxurious leather collar that combines elegance and functionality in one sophisticated accessory. This col...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Nipple clamps with heart - gold
Liebe SeeleAdjustable alligator clips provide customized playtime for all experience levels Rubber-covered ends offer extra comfort while wearing. Extra chic...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss Handcuffs with Locking Buckles - luxurious and exclusive design - Black/gold
Liebe SeeleHighlights: Luxe uitstraling door het zwarte runderleer dat is voorzien van een struisvogel-leer-look en de gouden details. Hou je partner in bedw...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Luxury Nipple Clamps with Seahorse Pendants - Pink/Gold
Liebe SeeleLiebe Seele – Luxury Nipple Clamps with Seahorse Pendants – Pink/GoldThese rose gold nipple clamps from Liebe Seele feature an elegant seahorse on ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Nipple Clamps with Water Sound Bells - Gold
Liebe SeeleLiebe Seele – Nipple Clamps with Water Sound Bell – GoldThese gold nipple clamps from Liebe Seele create a subtle interplay between pressure, movem...
View full detailsRimba - Nipple Clamps with Black Feathers and Gold Pendants - Black/Gold
RimbaRimba Bondage Play – Nipple Clamps with Black Feathers and Gold Pendants – Black & GoldA touch of elegance with a hint of excitement.The Rimba ...
View full detailsRimba - Nipple Clamps with Feathers - Gold
RimbaRimba Bondage Play – Nipple Clamps with Feathers – GoldExperience stylish excitement with the Rimba Bondage Play Nipple Clamps with Gold Feathers. ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Adjustable Bull Nose Nipple Clamps with Chain - Gold
Liebe SeeleTight or loose. These bullnose nipple clamps with rubber tips are a great sex toy to increase arousal. You can control the tension while your sub e...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Regular - Black/Gold
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger Regular – Black/GoldLooking for a refined mix of elegance and impact? The RISE Cat O' Nine Whip Regular is the...
View full detailsRISE - BDSM Whip - Feather Wide Single Tail - Black/Gold
RiseRISE – Feather Wide Single Tail WhipThe RISE Feather Wide Single Tail BDSM Whip is not just any whip, but an extension of your dominant e...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Samurai - Sturdy Bit Gag with Brass Hardware - Black - From Japan
Liebe SeeleSamurai-inspired bondage accessories that embody the spirit of warriors. Made of thick cowhide leather, they exude strength and resilience. The qua...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Warrior Princess - Tough Leather Collar with Brass Hardware - Black - From Japan
Liebe SeeleThe Warrior Princess collection consists of premium thick black cowhide leather with brass hardware, an embodied combination of strength, elegance ...
View full detailsSevanda - Flogger with Keychain, Charm and Pear-shaped Butt Plug - White/Gold
SevandaWhat is this really, a stylish keychain, a decoration for your handbag, a butt plug with a tail, a flogger? The answer is yes to everything! Sevand...
View full detailsSevanda - Flogger with Keychain, Charm and Tulip-shaped Butt Plug - White/Gold
SevandaWhat is this really, a stylish keychain, a decoration for your handbag, a butt plug with a tail, a flogger? The answer is yes to everything! Sevand...
View full detailsKiotos - Wartenburg Pinwheel - Gold
KiotosThis classic pinwheel, with its chic gold look, combines functionality with luxurious design. Those sharp points on the pins? Those are there to de...
View full detailsKiotos Deluxe - Black Leather Collar with Gold Chains - Adjustable
KiotosSpecifications: Weight: 200 grams Color: Black, Gold Body-safe: Yes Diameter: Neck circumference: 29 / 44 cm Material: Leather, Metal Product Des...
View full detailsKiotos - Gold Leather Collar with Gold Chains - Adjustable
KiotosSpecifications: Weight: 200 grams Color: Gold Body-safe: Yes Diameter: Neck circumference: 29 / 44 cm Material: Leather, Metal Product Descriptio...
View full detailsSevanda - Gold Metallic Love Slave Handcuffs
SevandaSpecifications: Material: Metal Color: Gold Weight: 270 grams Safe for the body: yes Diameter: 48/75 mm Length: 280 mm Product description: Disc...
View full detailsCB-X - CB6000 Chastity Cage - Penis Cage - Gold
CB-XWith an innovative design for comfort and safety, this penis cage is designed to tease and restrain. With its high-quality medical grade polycarbon...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Luxury Bondage System For Under The Mattress With Four Gold Clips - Fully Adjustable
Liebe SeeleDiscover a world of sensual pleasure with the Liebe Seele Luxe Bondage System for under the mattress. This elegant and alluring system offers the u...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Nipple Clamps With Rose - Gold
Liebe SeeleAdjustable alligator clips offer tailored playtime fun for all experience levels Rubber-coated ends offer extra comfort while wearing. Extra chic ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Nipple Clamps With Leaf Branch - Gold
Liebe SeeleAdjustable alligator clips offer tailored playtime fun for all experience levels Rubber-coated ends offer extra comfort while wearing. Extra chic ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss - Ankle Cuffs With Golden Heart Shaped Locks - Luxury And Exclusive Design - Black/Gold
Liebe SeeleHighlights: Luxe uitstraling door het zwarte runderleder dat is voorzien van een struisvogel-leer-look en de gouden details. Hou je partner in bed...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Rose Gold Memory - Exclusive Leather Collar And Leash - Rose Gold
Liebe SeeleThe finest quality rose gold leather androse gold hardware is a perfect match, The Rose Gold collection contains ten fantastic must-have items, sui...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Rose Gold Memory Exclusive Leather Blindfold with Plush Lining - Rose Gold
Liebe SeeleThe finest quality rose gold leather and rose gold hardware match perfectly. The Rose Gold collection contains ten fantastic must-have items, suita...
View full detailsFor us, BDSM isn’t just a product category—it’s the reason we started erotiekvoordeel.nl in the first place. As a couple who are actively involved in the BDSM scene ourselves, we know what a difference quality toys and accessories make to the quality of your play. In this collection, you’ll find everything you need for bondage, impact play, electrosex, chastity, and more—curated with expertise, not just pulled from a catalog.
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s a broad spectrum of play that revolves around two things: trust and control. Whether you’re unboxing a bondage set for the first time or have been setting up your own dungeon for years—this collection has what you need.
BDSM for beginners: start here
New to BDSM? Start small and build up. Most people start with soft bondage and sensory stimulation, and discover from there what works for them. A good starting point is a complete bondage set with handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light whip or paddle—everything you need to explore the dynamics of dominance and submission without feeling overwhelmed.
The golden rule in BDSM: agree in advance on what you do and don’t want, use a safeword, and build up the intensity gradually. No toy can replace that communication.
Bondage — the foundation of control
For many people, bondage is the gateway to BDSM. Restricting movement creates a physical and mental tension that enhances the rest of the play. Our bondage collection offers options for every level:
Handcuffs and ankle cuffs are the most accessible starting point. Choose soft, padded versions if you’re just starting out, or sturdy metal ones for a more intense experience. Bondage rope and tape offer more creative freedom—shibari rope made of jute or cotton is both functional and aesthetically pleasing. For those who want to go further: spreader bars secure the body in controlled positions, and bed bondage systems are ideal if you don’t want to use loose rope but still want complete control over your partner.
For a complete setup, there’s also bondage furniture—from bondage benches to full frames—and bondage hooks and hardwareto customize your play area.
Impact play — rhythm, intensity, and sensation
Impact play revolves around building tension through touch. From a gentle, playful tap to a firm lash — you determine the intensity yourself. Important: always start light and communicate during play about what feels good.
Paddles are ideal for beginners: wide striking surfaces distribute the force over a larger area, making the impact manageable. Whips require more technique but deliver an intense, precise sensation. For finer stimulation, there are pinwheels and prickling rollers, and for subtle, sensual touches, the tickling & caressing collection.
Sensory experience — heightening the senses
One of the most powerful BDSM techniques costs virtually nothing: removing one sense heightens all the others. A blindfold makes every touch more intense because you don’t see it coming. Gags limit sound and communication, thereby amplifying the power dynamic. Hoods and masks add a visual and tactile dimension to the play.
Combine a blindfold with nipple clamps — one of our best-selling BDSM products — for an experience where every sensation hits twice as hard. Nipple suckers are a slightly gentler option, ideal for those who find nipple clamps too intense.
Electrosex — control via electricity
Electrosex is the most technical branch of BDSM and has a loyal following for good reason: the sensations are unique and fully adjustable. A tingling sensation that ripples across the skin, muscles contracting involuntarily, intensity that you control with a dial — this is something no other toy can replicate.
Start with an electrosex power unit such as products from Electrastim or E-stim Systems — reliable brands offering precise control over intensity and waveform. Add electrosex clamps for nipple or genital stimulation, or use electrosex penis toys for a whole new dimension. The Violet Wand is a classic: the sparks that fly onto the skin create a tingling, slightly painful sensation that many people find highly addictive.
Important for electrosex: never use electricity above the waist on people with pacemakers or heart conditions, and always use toys specifically designed for electrosex.
Chastity — control over desire
Chastity play is one of the most psychologically intense forms of BDSM. By controlling—or denying—access to orgasm, you build tension that intensifies everything that follows. The submissive wears a chastity cage or chastity belt, while the dominant holds the key. Simple in concept, profound in effect.
For men, there are plastic chastity cages (lightweight, comfortable for extended wear) and metal versions (heavier, more imposing). For women, there are chastity belts that completely restrict access.
Medical play — precision and clinical atmosphere
Medical play explores the dynamics of control and vulnerability in a clinical setting. Speculums, dilators, and cupping sets are the core of this category. The cool, precise atmosphere of medical instruments in a sexual context is a powerful trigger for many people. Always use disposable gloves for hygiene and safety.
Collars and leashes — symbol of the bond
In the BDSM world, a collar is more than an accessory — it is a symbol of the dynamic between dominant and submissive. From everyday wearable leather to sturdy metal variants for the playroom. Pair with a leash for physical guidance during play.
Materials and Care
The quality of materials determines both safety and the experience. These are the most commonly used materials in our BDSM collection:
Leather is the classic: warm, supple, molds to the body, and has a distinctive scent that many people associate inextricably with BDSM. Maintain it with a good leather cleaner to keep it supple. Metal provides a cool, hard sensation and is exceptionally durable. Ideal for handcuffs, chastity cages, and nipple clamps.
Neoprene and nylon are lighter and more comfortable for extended use—great for beginners. Rope (jute, cotton, nylon) each has its own feel: jute is the traditional shibari choice with a rough texture, while cotton is softer and gentler on the skin.
Always clean products after use with a toy cleaner and store them in a dry place away from direct sunlight. Metal and silicone are the easiest to clean; leather requires more care but, with proper maintenance, will last for decades.
Combining for a complete BDSM experience
The true power of BDSM lies in the combination. A few ideas that work well in practice:
Classic bondage session: handcuffs + blindfold + paddle. Simple, effective, accessible for every level. Sensory overload: blindfold + nipple clamps + electrosex clamps — all senses on high alert. Long-term play: chastity cage + collar + leash — a dynamic that can last for hours or days. Impact focus: spreader bar + whip + bondage rope — classic dominance/submission setup.
Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM
What do I need if I want to get started with BDSM?
Start with a complete bondage set that combines handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light paddle. This gives you the basic ingredients for dominance and submission right away, even if you don’t yet know what you specifically enjoy. Then build on that based on what you discover.
Is BDSM safe?
Yes, provided you follow the SSC principles: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Agree on your limits in advance, use a safeword that everyone respects immediately, and always build intensity gradually. Quality products with quick-release fasteners or safety features are not a luxury but a necessity.
What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?
Bondage is one specific technique within the broader BDSM spectrum: restricting movement using rope, cuffs, or tape. BDSM also includes impact play, electrosex, chastity, psychological play, and more. Many people start with bondage and then explore other aspects.
Which BDSM products are suitable for beginners?
Start with soft materials: padded handcuffs, a soft blindfold, a light paddle or flogger, and possibly nipple clamps with adjustable tension. Avoid heavy bondage gear, intense electrosex, or XXL products at first—these require more technique and getting used to.
How do I choose the right chastity cage?
Fit is everything. A cage that’s too small is painful; one that’s too large offers insufficient control. Measure the penis circumference when flaccid and compare this to the ring size of the cage. Start with a slightly larger size if you’re new to wearing a chastity cage. Plastic is more comfortable for long-term use; metal is more intense and noticeable.
What is electrosex and is it safe?
Electrosex uses controlled electrical impulses for sexual stimulation. Provided you use products specifically designed for this purpose (such as Electrastim or E-stim systems) and follow the instructions, it is safe. Never use standard household electricity or devices not designed for electrosex.
Read more about BDSM
- 7 things I wish I’d known before entering the BDSM scene
- Bondage: an art of trust, control, and pleasure
- All about bondage — comprehensive guide
- All about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Shibari bondage rope: which rope should you choose?
- Electro sex for beginners
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- The paradox of pain in BDSM