BDSM Toys & Bondage Accessories
Kiotos - Black Leather Flogger with Braided Handle
KiotosThis Black Leather Flogger with Braided Handle has a length of 66 cm and features soft, flexible leather strands for a variety of sensations, from ...
View full detailsKiotos - Black Leather Mini Flogger Whip Pendants
KiotosAdd a unique touch to your collection with the Black Leather Mini Flogger Whip Pendants. These accessories combine fashion and functionality. The r...
View full details665 Vegan - Flogger - Faux leather - Black
665Vegan Leather Flogger by 665 Leather Perfect balance of control and sensation Flexible tails deliver everything from teasing taps to intense...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Crimson Desire - PU Leather Flogger - Rood
Liebe SeeleInspired by the vibrant and bold red color of the PU material, it perfectly embodies the passionate and intense experiences associated with the wor...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Vegan Fetish - Short Flogger - Black
Liebe SeeleThis vegan leather flogger is expertly designed to deliver both painful strokes and gentle, titillating caresses, making it a must-have for all col...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Kinbaku Ukiyoe - Lamb Leather Flogger - Red with Black Roses Print - Something Very Special! - Imported from Japan
Liebe SeeleAdd this very exclusive flogger to your BDSM toy box. Handcrafted by our experienced artisans using genuine lamb leather, this beautiful flogger is...
View full detailsRocks-off - Lust Linx Deliver - Vibrator and Flogger - 10 speeds - Black
Rocks OffFun for all - a vibrator for couples of both sexes, suitable for vaginal and anal stimulation.Unique sensations - couples can explore their kinky s...
View full detailsSevanda - Flogger with Keychain, Charm and Pear-shaped Butt Plug - White/Gold
SevandaWhat is this really, a stylish keychain, a decoration for your handbag, a butt plug with a tail, a flogger? The answer is yes to everything! Sevand...
View full detailsSevanda - Flogger with Keychain, Charm and Tulip-shaped Butt Plug - White/Gold
SevandaWhat is this really, a stylish keychain, a decoration for your handbag, a butt plug with a tail, a flogger? The answer is yes to everything! Sevand...
View full detailsFixxx - Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Butt Plug - Black
FixxxFixxx – Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Buttplug – BlackTough, versatile, and undeniably seductive – the Fixxx Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Buttplug i...
View full detailsFixxx - Aluminium flogger with hidden butt plug - Pink
FixxxFixxx – Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Buttplug – PinkTough, versatile, and undeniably seductive – the Fixxx Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Buttplug is...
View full detailsFixxx - Whip - Flogger - PU Leather - Snakeskin Print - Black
FixxxMeet Fixx, the affordable Dutch brand that offers original and accessible BDSM toys for every curious adventurer. With Fixx, you are assured of uni...
View full detailsFixxx - Whip - Flogger - PU Leather - Snakeskin Print - Red
FixxxMeet Fixx, the affordable Dutch brand that offers original and accessible BDSM toys for every curious adventurer. With Fixx, you are assured of uni...
View full detailsFixxx - Whip - Flogger - PU Leather - Snakeskin Print - Brown
FixxxMeet Fixx, the affordable Dutch brand that offers original and accessible BDSM toys for every curious adventurer. With Fixx, you are assured of uni...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Whip - 28 cm - Pink/Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Rope Flogger - 50 cm - Red/Black
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View full detailsSmart Moves - Silicone Flogger - 38 cm - Purple
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View full detailsSmart Moves - Silicone Flogger - 35 cm - Red/Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Mini Flogger - 45 cm - Red/Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Silicone Flogger - 38 cm - Red/Black
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View full detailsSmart Moves - Striped Flogger - Black/White
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View full detailsSmart Moves - Striped Flogger - Black/Red
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Faux Suede Flogger - 45 cm - Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - 35 cm - Purple/Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 27 cm - Red/Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 27 cm - Red/Black – Compact power with a fiery twistThe Leather Flogger 27 cm Red/Black is an exciting accessory th...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - 62 cm - Black/Red
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View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - Handle Decorated with Chains - 64 cm - Pink
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - Handle Decorated with Chains - 64 cm - Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 38 cm - Purple
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger with Studs - 38 cm - Red
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 39 cm - Red/Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger with Studs - 39 cm - Black
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 39 cm - Black/Red
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Pony Hair Flogger 92 cm - Nylon - Black/Blonde
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - Red
Smart MovesWelcome to Smart Moves! Discover our collection of budget-friendly, accessible and trendy BDSM toys that will bring your fantasies to life. At Smar...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Mossy Green - Luxury Braided Flogger - Cat-o-Nine Tails - Exclusive And Handmade In Japan
Liebe SeeleOriginally Cat with 9 tails was used for physical punishment in the Royal Navy and Army of the United Kingdom, and for judicial punishment in many ...
View full detailsMister B - Flogger With Roses - Black
Mister BDo you like things to get a little kinky and exciting between the sheets? Then the right toys and attributes are essential. The brand Mister B is k...
View full detailsKiotos - Seductive Hair Whip made of 100% Polyester - Length 65 cm - Brown
KiotosSpecifications: Weight: 125 grams Color: Brown Body-safe: Yes Length: 65 cm Material: 100% Polyester Product Description: Discover the Seductive ...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Black Bond - Bonded Leather Paddle - Eco-friendly - Black
Liebe SeeleDiscover now our new and eco-friendly paddle: made of sustainable material consisting of 50% recycled leather and 50% fabric. Bonded leather is bec...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Demon's Kiss Braided Cat O Nine Whip/Flogger - luxurious and exclusive design - Black
Liebe SeeleHighlights: Cat-O-Nine Tails whip is a powerful and tough toy for SM play. 9 handmade braided tails make the whip more stable, heavy and tough. I...
View full detailsLiebe Seele - Dark Secret - Luxury Leather Flogger - Exclusive And Handmade In Japan
Liebe SeeleElevate your BDSM experience with this extravagant leather flogger from the exclusive Dark Secret collection. Handmade by master craftsmen from hig...
View full detailsKiotos Leather - Flogger with acrylic handle - Red
KiotosThis is a small compact red flogger whip made of PU leather with a strong sturdy acrylic handle. Due to the round ball at the end of the handle, th...
View full detailsRimba - Whip - Flogger - Suede - 36 Strands - Purple/Black
RimbaThis 36-strand whip is ideal for showing and feeling who's boss! Nicely finished and with handle loop.
Rimba - Whip With 14 Strands And Leather Loop
RimbaWhip with 14 strands 60 cm long made of leather. Blessed whip to play with, whip your partner with this leather whip. The loop handle makes the whi...
View full detailsRimba - Whip With 18 Strands And Firm Handle - Black
RimbaBeautiful whip with 18 strands which is made of nice and supple leather. The whip has a thick sturdy leather handle with wooden core and is 95 cm l...
View full detailsRimba - Flogger with 12 strands - 60 cm length
RimbaGood whip with eight strands which is made of nice supple leather. The whip has a sturdy leather handle with wooden core and is 62 cm long. Great w...
View full detailsRimba - Whip With Aluminum Handle And Suede Strands - Black
RimbaWhip with aluminum handle and suede strands, 52 cm long. 25 strands, 6 mm wide with a length of 30 cm. Beautiful whip to delightfully whip or be wh...
View full detailsRimba - Suede Whip For Gentle Sensations
RimbaThis nice and soft spalt suede whip is ideal for the genitals of both men and women because of its short strands. The whip is soft and therefore al...
View full detailsFor us, BDSM isn’t just a product category—it’s the reason we started erotiekvoordeel.nl in the first place. As a couple who are actively involved in the BDSM scene ourselves, we know what a difference quality toys and accessories make to the quality of your play. In this collection, you’ll find everything you need for bondage, impact play, electrosex, chastity, and more—curated with expertise, not just pulled from a catalog.
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s a broad spectrum of play that revolves around two things: trust and control. Whether you’re unboxing a bondage set for the first time or have been setting up your own dungeon for years—this collection has what you need.
BDSM for beginners: start here
New to BDSM? Start small and build up. Most people start with soft bondage and sensory stimulation, and discover from there what works for them. A good starting point is a complete bondage set with handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light whip or paddle—everything you need to explore the dynamics of dominance and submission without feeling overwhelmed.
The golden rule in BDSM: agree in advance on what you do and don’t want, use a safeword, and build up the intensity gradually. No toy can replace that communication.
Bondage — the foundation of control
For many people, bondage is the gateway to BDSM. Restricting movement creates a physical and mental tension that enhances the rest of the play. Our bondage collection offers options for every level:
Handcuffs and ankle cuffs are the most accessible starting point. Choose soft, padded versions if you’re just starting out, or sturdy metal ones for a more intense experience. Bondage rope and tape offer more creative freedom—shibari rope made of jute or cotton is both functional and aesthetically pleasing. For those who want to go further: spreader bars secure the body in controlled positions, and bed bondage systems are ideal if you don’t want to use loose rope but still want complete control over your partner.
For a complete setup, there’s also bondage furniture—from bondage benches to full frames—and bondage hooks and hardwareto customize your play area.
Impact play — rhythm, intensity, and sensation
Impact play revolves around building tension through touch. From a gentle, playful tap to a firm lash — you determine the intensity yourself. Important: always start light and communicate during play about what feels good.
Paddles are ideal for beginners: wide striking surfaces distribute the force over a larger area, making the impact manageable. Whips require more technique but deliver an intense, precise sensation. For finer stimulation, there are pinwheels and prickling rollers, and for subtle, sensual touches, the tickling & caressing collection.
Sensory experience — heightening the senses
One of the most powerful BDSM techniques costs virtually nothing: removing one sense heightens all the others. A blindfold makes every touch more intense because you don’t see it coming. Gags limit sound and communication, thereby amplifying the power dynamic. Hoods and masks add a visual and tactile dimension to the play.
Combine a blindfold with nipple clamps — one of our best-selling BDSM products — for an experience where every sensation hits twice as hard. Nipple suckers are a slightly gentler option, ideal for those who find nipple clamps too intense.
Electrosex — control via electricity
Electrosex is the most technical branch of BDSM and has a loyal following for good reason: the sensations are unique and fully adjustable. A tingling sensation that ripples across the skin, muscles contracting involuntarily, intensity that you control with a dial — this is something no other toy can replicate.
Start with an electrosex power unit such as products from Electrastim or E-stim Systems — reliable brands offering precise control over intensity and waveform. Add electrosex clamps for nipple or genital stimulation, or use electrosex penis toys for a whole new dimension. The Violet Wand is a classic: the sparks that fly onto the skin create a tingling, slightly painful sensation that many people find highly addictive.
Important for electrosex: never use electricity above the waist on people with pacemakers or heart conditions, and always use toys specifically designed for electrosex.
Chastity — control over desire
Chastity play is one of the most psychologically intense forms of BDSM. By controlling—or denying—access to orgasm, you build tension that intensifies everything that follows. The submissive wears a chastity cage or chastity belt, while the dominant holds the key. Simple in concept, profound in effect.
For men, there are plastic chastity cages (lightweight, comfortable for extended wear) and metal versions (heavier, more imposing). For women, there are chastity belts that completely restrict access.
Medical play — precision and clinical atmosphere
Medical play explores the dynamics of control and vulnerability in a clinical setting. Speculums, dilators, and cupping sets are the core of this category. The cool, precise atmosphere of medical instruments in a sexual context is a powerful trigger for many people. Always use disposable gloves for hygiene and safety.
Collars and leashes — symbol of the bond
In the BDSM world, a collar is more than an accessory — it is a symbol of the dynamic between dominant and submissive. From everyday wearable leather to sturdy metal variants for the playroom. Pair with a leash for physical guidance during play.
Materials and Care
The quality of materials determines both safety and the experience. These are the most commonly used materials in our BDSM collection:
Leather is the classic: warm, supple, molds to the body, and has a distinctive scent that many people associate inextricably with BDSM. Maintain it with a good leather cleaner to keep it supple. Metal provides a cool, hard sensation and is exceptionally durable. Ideal for handcuffs, chastity cages, and nipple clamps.
Neoprene and nylon are lighter and more comfortable for extended use—great for beginners. Rope (jute, cotton, nylon) each has its own feel: jute is the traditional shibari choice with a rough texture, while cotton is softer and gentler on the skin.
Always clean products after use with a toy cleaner and store them in a dry place away from direct sunlight. Metal and silicone are the easiest to clean; leather requires more care but, with proper maintenance, will last for decades.
Combining for a complete BDSM experience
The true power of BDSM lies in the combination. A few ideas that work well in practice:
Classic bondage session: handcuffs + blindfold + paddle. Simple, effective, accessible for every level. Sensory overload: blindfold + nipple clamps + electrosex clamps — all senses on high alert. Long-term play: chastity cage + collar + leash — a dynamic that can last for hours or days. Impact focus: spreader bar + whip + bondage rope — classic dominance/submission setup.
Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM
What do I need if I want to get started with BDSM?
Start with a complete bondage set that combines handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light paddle. This gives you the basic ingredients for dominance and submission right away, even if you don’t yet know what you specifically enjoy. Then build on that based on what you discover.
Is BDSM safe?
Yes, provided you follow the SSC principles: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Agree on your limits in advance, use a safeword that everyone respects immediately, and always build intensity gradually. Quality products with quick-release fasteners or safety features are not a luxury but a necessity.
What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?
Bondage is one specific technique within the broader BDSM spectrum: restricting movement using rope, cuffs, or tape. BDSM also includes impact play, electrosex, chastity, psychological play, and more. Many people start with bondage and then explore other aspects.
Which BDSM products are suitable for beginners?
Start with soft materials: padded handcuffs, a soft blindfold, a light paddle or flogger, and possibly nipple clamps with adjustable tension. Avoid heavy bondage gear, intense electrosex, or XXL products at first—these require more technique and getting used to.
How do I choose the right chastity cage?
Fit is everything. A cage that’s too small is painful; one that’s too large offers insufficient control. Measure the penis circumference when flaccid and compare this to the ring size of the cage. Start with a slightly larger size if you’re new to wearing a chastity cage. Plastic is more comfortable for long-term use; metal is more intense and noticeable.
What is electrosex and is it safe?
Electrosex uses controlled electrical impulses for sexual stimulation. Provided you use products specifically designed for this purpose (such as Electrastim or E-stim systems) and follow the instructions, it is safe. Never use standard household electricity or devices not designed for electrosex.
Read more about BDSM
- 7 things I wish I’d known before entering the BDSM scene
- Bondage: an art of trust, control, and pleasure
- All about bondage — comprehensive guide
- All about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Shibari bondage rope: which rope should you choose?
- Electro sex for beginners
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- The paradox of pain in BDSM