BDSM Toys & Bondage Accessories
Rimba - Flogger With 14 strands
RimbaBeautiful whip with 15 strands which is made of nice supple leather. The whip has a sturdy leather handle with wooden core and is 75 cm long. Great...
View full detailsRimba Bondage Play - Leather SM Flogger With 14 strands
RimbaBeautiful whip with 14 strands made of supple leather. The whip has a solid leather handle with wooden core and is 65 cm long. Delicious whip to st...
View full detailsRimba - Flogger with 12 Silicone Strands Little Devil
RimbaSmall teasing whip with silicone strands. Length 30 cm. Nice to warm up with but can also bite.
Smart Moves - Silicone Flogger - Black
Smart MovesThe supple strands of the Smart Moves silicone flogger move like an extension of your hand and are effortlessly guided, ensuring every stroke lands...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Simple Flogger - PVC - Pink
Smart MovesA playful tap that slowly builds into a rhythm you won’t want to miss. This simple Smart Moves flogger in pink shows that subtlety is sometimes exa...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Camouflage Print Flogger - PU Leather - Red/Black/White
Smart MovesSometimes, the first touch says it all. A light tap, followed by a playful repetition that slowly builds in intensity. The Smart Moves flogger in c...
View full detailsRouge - Leather Flogger - Black
RougeThis type of flogger is known for its versatility. Light movements create a gentle sensation that glides over the skin. A little more force provide...
View full detailsRouge - Leather Flogger - Black
RougeRouge - Leather Flogger - BlackThe strands of the Rouge leather flogger move smoothly with each swing and distribute the force evenly across the sk...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Silicone Flogger - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves - Silicone Flogger - RedThe Smart Moves Silicone Flogger in red radiates instant energy. The powerful color gives this flogger a distin...
View full detailsRimba - BDSM Flogger with Roses - Black/Red
RimbaRimba – BDSM Flogger with Roses – Black/RedDiscover the refined balance between romance and dominance with the Rimba BDSM Flogger with Roses.The ei...
View full detailsRimba - Leather Suede Collar with Detachable Flogger - Black
RimbaRimba Bondage Play – Leather Suede Collar with Detachable Flogger – BlackSubtly soft, yet made for rough play.The Rimba Bondage Play Leather Suede ...
View full detailsRimba - Leather Whip with Metal Chain - Black & Silver
RimbaRimba Bondage Play – Leather Whip with Metal Chain – Black & SilverRough, dominant, and irresistibly stylish.The Rimba Bondage Play Leather Whi...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Deco - 45 cm - Black/White
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Deco (45 cm, Black/White)A game of contrasts, wrapped in leather. This 45 cm flogger combines black and white strands in...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 40 cm - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Leather Flogger – 40 cm – RedFiery red, supple leather and a touch of mischief – this flogger is your recipe for an evening full of p...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Mini Flogger - Silicone Strands - Beaded Handle - 21 cm - Purple
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Mini Flogger – 21 cm – PurpleSmall but mighty – the Smart Moves – Mini Flogger – 21 cm – Purple proves that size has nothing to do wi...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Mini Flogger - Silicone Strands - Beaded Handle - 21 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Mini Flogger – 21 cm – BlackSmall but mighty – the Smart Moves – Mini Flogger – 21 cm – Black proves that size has nothing to do with...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Braided Handle - Black/Red Strands
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Braided Handle – Black/Red StrandsThe Smart Moves – Flogger with Braided Handle – Black/Red Strands is an accessory that...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Short Suede Flogger - 24 cm - Black/Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Short Suede Flogger – 24 cm – Black/RedSmall, manoeuvrable and surprisingly intense – the Smart Moves – Short Suede Flogger – 24 cm –...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Rope Flogger - Natural
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Rope Flogger – NaturalAs if nature itself is lending a hand to your play: the Smart Moves – Rope Flogger – Natural brings a raw, rust...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Deco - 45 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Deco – 45 cm – BlackCompact in size, big in effect – that's the Smart Moves – Flogger with Deco – 45 cm – Black. This el...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - 63 cm - PU Leather - Smooth Acrylic Handle - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger PU Leather 63 cm Smooth Acrylic Handle BlackThe Smart Moves – Flogger PU Leather 63 cm Smooth Acrylic Handle Black combines c...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Bling Bling Handle - 51 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Bling Handle 51 cm BlackThe Smart Moves – Flogger with Bling Handle 51 cm Black is a seductive combination of elegance a...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Carabiner - 32 cm - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Carabiner 32 cm RedThe Smart Moves – Flogger with Carabiner 32 cm Red is a compact and seductive BDSM accessory that imm...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Studded Flogger - 60 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Studded Flogger PVC 60 cm BlackThe Smart Moves – Studded Flogger PVC 60 cm Black is a powerful BDSM accessory that combines dominance...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Studded Flogger - 60 cm - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Studded Flogger PVC 60 cm RedThe Smart Moves – Studded Flogger PVC 60 cm Red combines fiery intensity with a rugged look. This 60 cm ...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Suede Flogger - 40 cm - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Suede Flogger 40 cm RedThe Smart Moves – Suede Flogger 40 cm Red is a compact but intense BDSM instrument that brings together warmth...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Foxtail Flogger - 62cm - Gray
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Foxtail Flogger 62 cm GrayThe Smart Moves – Foxtail Flogger 62 cm Gray combines playful dominance with a touch of wild instinct. This...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Foxtail Flogger - 62cm - Brown
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Foxtail Flogger 62 cm BrownThe Smart Moves – Foxtail Flogger 62 cm Brown combines playful dominance with a natural touch. This flogge...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - Silicone Strings - 51 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger – Silicone strands – 51 cm – BlackSleek, stylish, and irresistibly intense: the Smart Moves – Flogger – Silicone Strands – 51...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger - Silicone Strings - 51 cm - Purple
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger – Silicone Strands – 51 cm – PurpleElegant, powerful, and irresistibly seductive: the Smart Moves – Flogger – Silicone Strand...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Simple Flogger - PU Leather - 45 cm - Red
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Simple Flogger – PU Leather – 45 cm – RedCompact in size but big on promise: the Smart Moves – Simple Flogger – PU Leather – 45 cm – ...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Simple Flogger - PU Leather - 45 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Simple Flogger – PU Leather – 45 cm – BlackCompact in size but big on promise: the Smart Moves – Simple Flogger – PU Leather – 45 cm ...
View full detailsFixxx - Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Butt Plug - Red
FixxxFixxx – Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Butt Plug – RedTough, versatile, and undeniably seductive – the Fixxx Aluminum Flogger with Hidden Butt Plug i...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 27 cm - Purple/Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves - Leather Flogger - 27 cm - Purple/Black – Compact, Playful, and MysteriousThe Leather Flogger 27 cm Purple/Black combines seductive my...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger Leopard Print - 39 cm - Purple/Black
Smart MovesLeopard Flogger 39 cm Purple/Black – Wild and PlayfulThe Leopard Flogger 39 cm Purple/Black adds an exotic twist to your BDSM collection. With its ...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Mini Flogger - PVC - 28 cm - Black
Smart MovesMini Flogger 28 cm Black – Compact, stylish, and irresistibly excitingThe Mini Flogger 28 cm Black is the perfect toy for those who want to combine...
View full detailsSmart Moves - Flogger with Extra Long Handle - PU Leather - 59 cm - Black
Smart MovesSmart Moves – Flogger with Extra Long Handle – PU Leather – 59 cm – BlackGo for ultimate control with the Smart Moves Flogger with Extra Long Handl...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Extra Heavy - Black/Blue
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger Regular – Black/GreenRISE – Extra Heavy Cat O' Nine Whip – Black/BlueFor those who love powerful impact and pure craftsm...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Extra Heavy - Black/Red
RiseRISE – Extra Heavy Cat O' Nine Whip – Black/RedFor those who love powerful impact and pure craftsmanship, the RISE Heavy Cat O' Nine Whip...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Heavy - Black/Red
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger - Heavy – Black/RedFor those who like a balanced mix of feeling and power, the RISE Cat O' Nine Whip - Thicker ...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Regular - Black/Green
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger Regular – Black/GreenLooking for a refined blend of elegance and impact? The RISE Cat O' Nine Whip Regular is ...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Heavy - Black/Wine Red
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger - Heavy – Black/Wine RedFor those who like a balanced mix of feeling and power, the RISE Cat O' Nine Whip - Thicker...
View full detailsRISE - Cat O' Nine BDSM Whip - Regular - Black/Gold
RiseRISE – Cat O' Nine Flogger Regular – Black/GoldLooking for a refined mix of elegance and impact? The RISE Cat O' Nine Whip Regular is the...
View full detailsRISE - Long flogger with hard leather tails - black/red
RiseRISE – Long Flogger with Hard Strands For lovers of intense impact and stylish craftsmanship, the RISE Long Flogger with hard leather str...
View full detailsRISE - Long flogger with hard tails – black
RiseRISE – Long Flogger with Hard Strings – BlackFor lovers of intense impact and stylish craftsmanship, the RISE Long Flogger with hard leather s...
View full detailsRISE - Long flogger with hard tails – red
RiseRISE – Long Flogger with Hard Strands For lovers of intense impact and stylish craftsmanship, the RISE Long Flogger with hard leather str...
View full detailsRISE - Long flogger with soft tails - Red
RiseRISE – Long Flogger with Soft StrandsFor lovers of refined control, sensual touch and stylish BDSM play, there is the RISE Long Flogger with S...
View full detailsRISE - Long flogger with soft tails - black
RiseRISE – Long Flogger with Soft StrandsFor lovers of refined control, sensual touch and stylish BDSM play, there is the RISE Long Flogger with S...
View full detailsFor us, BDSM isn’t just a product category—it’s the reason we started erotiekvoordeel.nl in the first place. As a couple who are actively involved in the BDSM scene ourselves, we know what a difference quality toys and accessories make to the quality of your play. In this collection, you’ll find everything you need for bondage, impact play, electrosex, chastity, and more—curated with expertise, not just pulled from a catalog.
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s a broad spectrum of play that revolves around two things: trust and control. Whether you’re unboxing a bondage set for the first time or have been setting up your own dungeon for years—this collection has what you need.
BDSM for beginners: start here
New to BDSM? Start small and build up. Most people start with soft bondage and sensory stimulation, and discover from there what works for them. A good starting point is a complete bondage set with handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light whip or paddle—everything you need to explore the dynamics of dominance and submission without feeling overwhelmed.
The golden rule in BDSM: agree in advance on what you do and don’t want, use a safeword, and build up the intensity gradually. No toy can replace that communication.
Bondage — the foundation of control
For many people, bondage is the gateway to BDSM. Restricting movement creates a physical and mental tension that enhances the rest of the play. Our bondage collection offers options for every level:
Handcuffs and ankle cuffs are the most accessible starting point. Choose soft, padded versions if you’re just starting out, or sturdy metal ones for a more intense experience. Bondage rope and tape offer more creative freedom—shibari rope made of jute or cotton is both functional and aesthetically pleasing. For those who want to go further: spreader bars secure the body in controlled positions, and bed bondage systems are ideal if you don’t want to use loose rope but still want complete control over your partner.
For a complete setup, there’s also bondage furniture—from bondage benches to full frames—and bondage hooks and hardwareto customize your play area.
Impact play — rhythm, intensity, and sensation
Impact play revolves around building tension through touch. From a gentle, playful tap to a firm lash — you determine the intensity yourself. Important: always start light and communicate during play about what feels good.
Paddles are ideal for beginners: wide striking surfaces distribute the force over a larger area, making the impact manageable. Whips require more technique but deliver an intense, precise sensation. For finer stimulation, there are pinwheels and prickling rollers, and for subtle, sensual touches, the tickling & caressing collection.
Sensory experience — heightening the senses
One of the most powerful BDSM techniques costs virtually nothing: removing one sense heightens all the others. A blindfold makes every touch more intense because you don’t see it coming. Gags limit sound and communication, thereby amplifying the power dynamic. Hoods and masks add a visual and tactile dimension to the play.
Combine a blindfold with nipple clamps — one of our best-selling BDSM products — for an experience where every sensation hits twice as hard. Nipple suckers are a slightly gentler option, ideal for those who find nipple clamps too intense.
Electrosex — control via electricity
Electrosex is the most technical branch of BDSM and has a loyal following for good reason: the sensations are unique and fully adjustable. A tingling sensation that ripples across the skin, muscles contracting involuntarily, intensity that you control with a dial — this is something no other toy can replicate.
Start with an electrosex power unit such as products from Electrastim or E-stim Systems — reliable brands offering precise control over intensity and waveform. Add electrosex clamps for nipple or genital stimulation, or use electrosex penis toys for a whole new dimension. The Violet Wand is a classic: the sparks that fly onto the skin create a tingling, slightly painful sensation that many people find highly addictive.
Important for electrosex: never use electricity above the waist on people with pacemakers or heart conditions, and always use toys specifically designed for electrosex.
Chastity — control over desire
Chastity play is one of the most psychologically intense forms of BDSM. By controlling—or denying—access to orgasm, you build tension that intensifies everything that follows. The submissive wears a chastity cage or chastity belt, while the dominant holds the key. Simple in concept, profound in effect.
For men, there are plastic chastity cages (lightweight, comfortable for extended wear) and metal versions (heavier, more imposing). For women, there are chastity belts that completely restrict access.
Medical play — precision and clinical atmosphere
Medical play explores the dynamics of control and vulnerability in a clinical setting. Speculums, dilators, and cupping sets are the core of this category. The cool, precise atmosphere of medical instruments in a sexual context is a powerful trigger for many people. Always use disposable gloves for hygiene and safety.
Collars and leashes — symbol of the bond
In the BDSM world, a collar is more than an accessory — it is a symbol of the dynamic between dominant and submissive. From everyday wearable leather to sturdy metal variants for the playroom. Pair with a leash for physical guidance during play.
Materials and Care
The quality of materials determines both safety and the experience. These are the most commonly used materials in our BDSM collection:
Leather is the classic: warm, supple, molds to the body, and has a distinctive scent that many people associate inextricably with BDSM. Maintain it with a good leather cleaner to keep it supple. Metal provides a cool, hard sensation and is exceptionally durable. Ideal for handcuffs, chastity cages, and nipple clamps.
Neoprene and nylon are lighter and more comfortable for extended use—great for beginners. Rope (jute, cotton, nylon) each has its own feel: jute is the traditional shibari choice with a rough texture, while cotton is softer and gentler on the skin.
Always clean products after use with a toy cleaner and store them in a dry place away from direct sunlight. Metal and silicone are the easiest to clean; leather requires more care but, with proper maintenance, will last for decades.
Combining for a complete BDSM experience
The true power of BDSM lies in the combination. A few ideas that work well in practice:
Classic bondage session: handcuffs + blindfold + paddle. Simple, effective, accessible for every level. Sensory overload: blindfold + nipple clamps + electrosex clamps — all senses on high alert. Long-term play: chastity cage + collar + leash — a dynamic that can last for hours or days. Impact focus: spreader bar + whip + bondage rope — classic dominance/submission setup.
Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM
What do I need if I want to get started with BDSM?
Start with a complete bondage set that combines handcuffs, a blindfold, and a light paddle. This gives you the basic ingredients for dominance and submission right away, even if you don’t yet know what you specifically enjoy. Then build on that based on what you discover.
Is BDSM safe?
Yes, provided you follow the SSC principles: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Agree on your limits in advance, use a safeword that everyone respects immediately, and always build intensity gradually. Quality products with quick-release fasteners or safety features are not a luxury but a necessity.
What is the difference between bondage and BDSM?
Bondage is one specific technique within the broader BDSM spectrum: restricting movement using rope, cuffs, or tape. BDSM also includes impact play, electrosex, chastity, psychological play, and more. Many people start with bondage and then explore other aspects.
Which BDSM products are suitable for beginners?
Start with soft materials: padded handcuffs, a soft blindfold, a light paddle or flogger, and possibly nipple clamps with adjustable tension. Avoid heavy bondage gear, intense electrosex, or XXL products at first—these require more technique and getting used to.
How do I choose the right chastity cage?
Fit is everything. A cage that’s too small is painful; one that’s too large offers insufficient control. Measure the penis circumference when flaccid and compare this to the ring size of the cage. Start with a slightly larger size if you’re new to wearing a chastity cage. Plastic is more comfortable for long-term use; metal is more intense and noticeable.
What is electrosex and is it safe?
Electrosex uses controlled electrical impulses for sexual stimulation. Provided you use products specifically designed for this purpose (such as Electrastim or E-stim systems) and follow the instructions, it is safe. Never use standard household electricity or devices not designed for electrosex.
Read more about BDSM
- 7 things I wish I’d known before entering the BDSM scene
- Bondage: an art of trust, control, and pleasure
- All about bondage — comprehensive guide
- All about impact play: from spanking to bullwhip
- Shibari bondage rope: which rope should you choose?
- Electro sex for beginners
- Caning: a classic BDSM technique
- The paradox of pain in BDSM