BDSM Accessories – Sensory Play and Control
Kiotos - Round Nipple Clamps With Screws
KiotosEnjoy exciting nipple stimulation with this nipple stimulator with screws. It is a beautifully finished round sex toy that gives great pleasure. W...
View full detailsKiotos - Stainless steel mouth clamp With strap
KiotosThe Whitehead Gag is ideal for keeping the mouth as wide open as you like. It works on an adjustable system, so it is easy to adjust. The Whitehead...
View full detailsKiotos - Stainless Steel Collar With Allen Lock And O-ring
KiotosKeep your submissive in-line and in control with this steel collar. The stainless steel collar can be closed and opened with an Allen key (included...
View full detailsKiotos Intense Nipple Grabbers with Hooks - Stainless Steel
KiotosExperience a new dimension of nipple stimulation with these intense nipple clamps from Kiotos. These nipple clamps are made of high-quality stainle...
View full detailsKiotos - Cathedral Round Collar- Stainless Steel - Lockable With Allen Key
KiotosThis is a beautiful handmade slave collar. Made of 100% Kiotos steel. The shiny heavy steel provides a nice weight and feels good against the skin ...
View full detailsKiotos - Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps
KiotosPerfect for an exciting and sensational game!These nipple clamps by Kiotos with a beautiful design, are not suitable for the tender souls among us....
View full detailsKiotos - Cathedral Round Collar With Swarovski Decorative Crystal - without lock
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made from 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality steel products available today. Cleaning your toys is ea...
View full detailsKiotos - Magnetic Nipple Clamps
KiotosThese Magnetic Nipple Pinchers are great for women and men during bondage and fetish (BDSM) play, as it gives pleasure to the nipples. The aluminiu...
View full detailsKiotos - Solid stainless steel ball Ø 50 mm - 505 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Pink Gold Nipple Clamps with Clitoris Clamp - Elegant and Intense
KiotosMeet our Rose Gold Nipples and Clit Clamps by Kiotos Steel. Elegantly connecting clitoris and nipples with matching rose gold chains, this seductiv...
View full detailsKiotos - Oval Collar - Ergonomic shape for comfort - Lockable - Stainless steel
KiotosThis oval stainless steel collar has an amazingly unique design that you have never seen before.On the sides of the collar, the height is a little ...
View full detailsKiotos Steel - Nipple Clamps With bells
KiotosNipple clamps with a round small bell. Always fit snugly around your hard nipples. Everyone can hear where you are or that you are coming. This is ...
View full detailsKiotos - Adjustable Square Nipple Clamps With Screw
KiotosThese square nipple clamps offer stimulation and pressure on your nipples. The 2 plateaus can be easily tightened by means of the screws so that yo...
View full detailsKiotos - Stainless Steel Collar Solid With Transparent Crystal Front - Large - 13.5 cm
KiotosThis beautiful classic steel collar with jewel will make you look like a BDSM star. Simply attach it by loosening the O-Ring screw anticlockwise, o...
View full detailsKiotos - Steel Nipple Clamp Rings With Chain - Stainless Steel - Chain Length 38 cm
KiotosDiameter: Maximum opening 12x18 mm Length: 380 mm Width: Ring 40 mm Material: Stainless steel Discover the ultimate sensation with our stainless ...
View full detailsHollow Metal Anal Plug
KiotosHollow anal plug specially designed to truly provide you with pure anal pleasure. Sturdy Stainless Free Steel material with a 2cm hollow inside for...
View full detailsKiotos - Deep Throat Gag
KiotosThis unique gag is designed to keep your mouth open for an oral invasion! The two rings keep your mouth spread from lips to throat so you can slide...
View full detailsKiotos - Solid stainless steel ball Ø 30 mm - 113 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Jennings Mouth Clamp - Metal With Rubber Coating
KiotosBondage Whitehead Jennings Ratchet Mouth Gag. This item is made of black silicone coated stainless steel and adjustable leather strap. Opening mout...
View full detailsKiotos - Cat Mouth Gag With Metal whiskers
KiotosSilence is golden... A beautiful open ring gag with a nod to a cat's whiskers. Tough silver studs are attached to the black leather strap and an ad...
View full detailsKiotos - Magnetic Nipple Clamp With Chain - 1 Piece
KiotosMeet the Magnetic Nipple Clamp With Chain, an exciting option for those looking for intense and painful nipple stimulation. The chain provides extr...
View full detailsKiotos - Solid stainless steel ball Ø 70 mm - 1440 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Watch band Collar with Links - O-ring with Swarovski Crystal And Lock
KiotosThis stainless steel Watchband collar has a beautiful design with a links like a wristwatch and a clasp hidden behind the O-ring with a beautiful S...
View full detailsKiotos - Collar With Three Rows Of Chain - Silver
KiotosBeautiful necklace with 3 rows. To be used for various BDSM toys or just a nice piece of jewellery for your collection. Finished with 2 D-rings and...
View full detailsKiotos - Solid stainless steel ball Ø 60 mm - 896 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Massive stainless steel ball Ø 45 mm
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Locking Collar With Ring - 11 cm
KiotosCapture your own Egyptian goddess and keep her close to you with this stylish stainless steel Cleopatra collar. Attached to the collar is a ring wh...
View full detailsKiotos - Adjustable Tong clamp
KiotosSilence your servant with this amazing adjustable tongue clamp.Featuring a stainless steel tongue clamp that you can adjust to fit any type of tong...
View full detailsKiotos - Pinch Nipple Clamps with Ball Ends - Extra Sensations - Silver
KiotosDiscover these new nipple clamps with a twist: these clamps have ball-shaped tips as ends and the clamps are finished in cool silver. These clamps ...
View full detailsKiotos -Solid stainless steel ball Ø 50 mm - 707 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Large Metal main cage - Black coating
KiotosTough piece of steel. A very tough looking head cage from Kiotos, made of 100% high quality black stainless steel. Perfect for showing who is the b...
View full detailsKiotos - Metal Nipple Clamps shaped like clothespin - 5x Set with 1 Meter Rope
KiotosMeet our Modern Zinc Alloy Nipple Clamps 5x Set with 1 Meter Rope, a fascinating addition to your intimate collection. Are you looking for an exhil...
View full detailsKiotos Steel - Weight Ball Flask Stainless Steel - fillable
KiotosGo one step further and lock your balls in this heavy stainless steel "Ballflask" weighing a whopping 1405 grams! Not heavy enough? You can fill th...
View full detailsKiotos -Solid stainless steel ball Ø 40 mm - 270 grams
KiotosHeavy solid round ball made of stainless steel. This ball can be used in combination with bondage items with removable threaded balls. So you can e...
View full detailsKiotos - Clothespin Nipple Clamps
KiotosHave you ever dreamed of an enchanting sensory experience? Meet our clothespin nipple clamp, a sensual addition to your intimate collection. Whethe...
View full detailsKiotos - Classic Nipple Clamps - With Screw
KiotosLooking for a timeless addition to your intimate collection? Meet our classic nipple clamps from Kiotos Steel. Designed for lovers of simplicity an...
View full detailsKiotos - Locking Collar With Ring - 12 cm
KiotosThis beautiful collar from the brand Kiotos is made of 100% high-quality stainless steel. Not only does the collar have a luxurious stylish look, i...
View full detailsKiotos - Pinch Nipple Clamps with Ball Ends - Extra Sensations - Pink Gold
KiotosDiscover these new nipple clamps with a twist: these clamps have ball-shaped tip as the end and the clamps are finished in chic rose gold. These cl...
View full detailsKiotos - Pinch Nipple Clamps
KiotosEnjoy the pleasure of a torturous stimulation with these beautifully designed, ball-tipped nipple clamps. Designed for a painful yet satisfying squ...
View full detailsKiotos - Dungeon Collar Stainless Steel
KiotosThis exceptionally beautiful, wide collar from the brand Kiotos is designed especially for the professional enthusiasts among us! Made of perfectly...
View full detailsKiotos - Modern Nipple Clamps Necklace - Sensual Addition to Your Collection
KiotosMeet our modern zinc alloy nipple clamps with chain. A sleek and seductive addition to your intimate collection. Made with precision in mind, these...
View full detailsKiotos - Pink Gold Nipple Clamps Pinchers - Seductive Addition for Intimate Pleasure
KiotosLooking for a touch of sophistication in your intimate moments? Meet our Rose Gold Color Nipple Clamps Pinchers! These beautiful rose gold accessor...
View full detailsKiotos - Rose gold nipple clamps with rhinestones
KiotosLooking for an alluring accessory for a touch of opulence? Meet our rose gold colored nipple clamps with rhinestones by Kiotos Steel. Combining ele...
View full detailsKiotos - Heart-shaped Nipple Clamps with Spring
KiotosDiscover the world of sensual pleasure with our heart-shaped nipple clamps from Kiotos Steel! This charming addition to your intimate collection is...
View full detailsKiotos - Adjustable Nipple Clamps With Heavy Chain
KiotosExperience the kinky combination of pleasure and pain by attaching these adjustable nipple clamps to you or your partner's nipples.These large clam...
View full detailsKiotos - Pinch Nipple Clamps with Ball Ends - Extra Sensations - Matte Black
KiotosDiscover these new nipple clamps with a twist: these clamps have ball-shaped tips as ends and the clamps come in cool matte black. These clamps are...
View full detailsKiotos - Solid stainless steel ball Ø 20 mm - 31 grams
KiotosKiotos Steel products are made of 100% stainless steel, this ensures the highest quality and a very long life. Cleaning your toys is easy with Kiot...
View full detailsKiotos - Steel Collar And Handcuffs
KiotosA complete handcuffs & collar set made of stainless steel. Lock or unlock the collar and handcuffs with the included Allen wrench. Sizes size M...
View full detailsThis is the essence of BDSM play: accessories that stimulate the senses, define roles, and heighten sensations. Blindfolds, gags, collars, nipple clamps—every product in this collection adds its own unique dimension to the dynamic between dominant and submissive.
Blindfolds—the most powerful free BDSM tool
A blindfold is the simplest and, at the same time, most effective BDSM accessory. By taking away sight, all other senses become more acute: every touch is more intense because you don’t see it coming, every sound more meaningful because context is missing. Start here if you’re exploring BDSM for the first time—the impact is immediate and doesn’t have to cost a thing.
Choose a well-fitting blindfold made of soft material—cheap alternatives let light through or are uncomfortable. A good blindfold blocks out light completely and stays in place during movement.
Gags — communication as a means of control
Gags restrict speech and thereby reinforce the power dynamic. The submissive loses part of their ability to communicate — which intensifies dependence and surrender. Choose the type based on experience and comfort:
Ball gags are the most recognizable type: a ball on a strap worn in the mouth. Start with a smaller diameter. Tie-on gags are softer and less intense—a piece of fabric or leather tied over the mouth. Bite gags are bitten down on and allow more sound to pass through. Important for any type of gag: always use a non-verbal safeword (two taps, a quick hand gesture) so the submissive can always stop.
Collars — symbol of the dynamic
In the BDSM world, a collar is more than an accessory—it is a symbol of the relationship and the power dynamic. From everyday wearable collars in discreet leather to heavy metal collars for the playroom. Pair with a leash for physical guidance and total control over movement.
Many couples also view collaring as a ritual: putting on the collar marks the beginning of a session, removing it marks the end. This creates a clear framework for both partners.
Nipple clamps — intense focal stimulation
Nipple clamps are one of the most popular BDSM accessories — and for good reason. Nipples are particularly sensitive, and the combination of pressure, mild pain, and blood rush upon removal creates an intense, distinct sensation. There are several types:
Adjustable clamps are ideal for beginners: you decide how tight they are. Alligator clamps grip more firmly and are more intense. Clamps with weights add extra tension through the weight. Clamps connected by a chain give the dominant partner extra options to regulate tension by pulling gently. Always start with light tension and build up—nipples get used to the sensation.
Nipple suckers work differently: they create vacuum pressure that pulls the nipple upward. Less intense than clamps, but provides a long-lasting tingling sensation. A good option if nipple clamps are still too intense.
Hoods and masks
Hoods and masks block multiple senses at once and create a feeling of complete isolation. Full-face hoods made of leather or latex cover the eyes and ears—an intense sensory deprivation experience. Masks are less total and add a visual element to the play without complete sensory isolation.
Weights — gravity as a playmate
Weights are combined with nipple clamps or other clamps to create continuous tension through gravity. Every movement of the wearer becomes palpable — a subtle but constant reminder of the dominant’s control.
Cock & Ball Torture accessories
CBT accessories focus on genital stimulation through pressure, tension, and restriction. From spiked cock rings to scrotum clamps—this is a niche for advanced users who know exactly what they want. Start with light pressure and never apply excessive force in this sensitive area.
Gas masks
Gas masks are a fetish item with a strong visual and sensory impact. They restrict the field of vision, muffle sound, and create a clinical, industrial atmosphere that fits perfectly with certain BDSM scenarios. Always ensure adequate airflow.
Temperature play
Temperature play plays with the sensations of hot and cold. Ice cubes, low-melting-point candles, metal toys that you can cool or heat beforehand—the contrast between hot and cold on the skin is an intense, accessible BDSM sensation that can be safely combined with other techniques.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are nipple clamps painful?
Nipple clamps provide a combination of pressure and mild pain that many people find pleasurable. Start with adjustable clamps set to the lowest tension and build up from there. For many, the intensity upon removal is the highlight.
How do you use a gag safely?
Always use a non-verbal safeword, such as tapping twice or a quick hand gesture. Never wear a gag for longer than 20–30 minutes per session, and check regularly to ensure the jaw isn’t too tight. Make sure the wearer can sit upright to prevent saliva from blocking the airway.
What is the difference between a collar for daily use and one for the playroom?
Daily collars are thinner, tighter, and more discreet—they look like an unusual piece of jewelry. Playroom collars are heavier, wider, and more explicit. Many couples have both: the daily collar as a subtle symbol of their dynamic, and the playroom collar for sessions.
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