Spanking:spanking for lovers

Funny how things that you hated as a child as an adult find exciting, fun or tasty. Take a nap for example! Most children take an afternoon nap alone under loud protest. As you get older, you often enjoy closing your eyes in the afternoon sun and having a good time. Spanking is like that. Who would have ever thought that as an adult you would find it fun and exciting to get slapped on the butt

But although it sounds simple, there is more behind the word spanking. Because do you do it with your bare hand or do you prefer to use apaddle, flogger orwhip? The official term is impact play, but spanking sounds a lot more fun, so we're going to use that word in this piece.

A few things you can ask yourself: when do you hit, how hard do you hit, when do you stop hitting again Can I also sit on the buttocks after the first blow Do I massage the ass first or do I massage the red beaten butt just after the spanking Can I have anal sex and slap someone on the butt at the same time What about doggystyle So many questions and for every question there are several good answers. The best answer of all is what you and your partner both like. Precisely. Ask him or her. Make sure you know what he or she likes before you start the swat.rij.

Maybe your partner wants you to slap their ass while they're getting anal or vaginal, but maybe not. Maybe they only want to be spanked while tied up or handcuffed Then we're talking about something more serious anyway BDSMplay but hey, no judgment. As long as both/all parties are okay with it: go for it!

Like most other kinks, spanking can be super exciting. Personally, I love nice buttocks so I also love spanking. Spanning by hand is nice, but to make sure it doesn't hurt over time, I also like to use abamboo slice or one withleather covered cane†

Spanking is an excellent combination with playing with power (dominance and submissiveness) and that combination can be even more stimulating mentally. In addition, the buttocks have a lot of nerve endings which makes every touch quite seductive. That is also one (of the many) reasons why anal sex is so popular.

In short, spanking can (but doesn't have to be) be the gateway to a whole lot of other fun and exciting activities. It can be as soft and tender as a loving pat on the butt or as hard-core (up to bruising) as your partner wants. He or she may want to be spanked while having oral sex. Or maybe they want to be put in front of the mirror and watch themselves get beaten Maybe they just want to watch you spank someone else You'll never know if you don't ask But most of all, have fun together!er!