How do you use a masturbator with your partner for exciting foreplay?

Did you know that sex toys can give your sex life a huge boost? If you're on this website, you probably already know that! But fair is fair: when we talk about sex toys, we often think of vibrators or dildos. And of course, we are already very happy about that! It's great that people enjoy masturbation, sometimes with a little help from an electric toy. But let's not forget that there are also toys designed specifically to indulge the penis - and those are also great for experimenting together!

For example, have you ever thought about a masturbation sleeve during a handjob? This can be a tremendously exciting experience. Here you can read why you should put a new spin on the classic handjob and get my tips and tricks on how to use a stroker!

Strokers aren't just for solo pleasure

You may think mini masturbators are only there for solo pleasure, but these are also great to use during jerking off.

If your partner is hesitant about using sex toys, a simple stroker during jerking off can take them from nervous to excited! The sensation of a toy around the penis can be so intense that it pleasantly surprises your partner.

Why it's great for you

Giving a handjob is not always easy. Especially since your partner probably knows very well how to pleasure themselves, it can be quite intimidating. In fact, many people find a blowjob easier than a handjob because the proper techniques often take some practice. Plus, it can be exhausting if your partner doesn't respond super sensitively to your touches.

Fortunately, a stroker makes it a lot easier! Here are four reasons why a stroker will help you, too:

1. Less effort
   A stroker takes a lot of the work out of your hands (literally). No more sore wrists or tired arms!
2. The texture does the work
   The ridges, beads or other textures in the sleeve create extra sensations, which means you have to move less and still achieve a great effect.
3. Faster to climax
   The extra sensations and tight sheath of a stroker help your partner come faster than with a regular handjob.
4. More pleasure for you
   When you get the hang of it, it even becomes fun to give handjobs. It's exciting and feels less like “work.

Why it's great for your partner

First, everyone wants to experience pleasure - and that includes your partner. They enjoy the feel of your hand over their penis, the perfect grip, and the attention you give.

In addition, they want to see you enjoying yourself while you indulge them. But when your hands get tired and stop enjoying doing it, that pleasure falls away. With a masturbation sleeve, you not only add extra sensation, but you can continue to enjoy yourself in a relaxed way.

Here are four reasons why your partner will love the experience with a stroker:

1. Incredible sensation
   The soft, stretchy material of a stroker feels amazing, especially when combined with a slippery, long-acting lubricant.
2. Extra sensation through textures
   Many masturbation sleeves have textured tunnels or chambers that provide extra stimulation with each movement.
3. Perfect for beginners
   If you don't have much experience with handjobs, this is a great way to improve your technique while your partner enjoys.
4. An exciting visual effect
   Your partner will find it incredibly exciting to watch you work with the stroker and give them so much pleasure.

Getting started with a stroker

Want to try this out? Choose a masturbator that suits you guys, make sure you have a good lubricant, and start slowly. You'll find how fun and exciting it can be to discover a new toy together! 🌟