Sexual Orientation: who and what do you call yourself?

Sexual orientation is about who you find attractive and who you are romantically and/or sexually oriented toward - whether men, women, both, or no one in particular. It is a complicated and personal part of your identity that undoubtedly raises questions. Let's delve deeper into its various aspects.

Heterosexuality: This term is used to describe the attraction to the opposite sex. Heterosexual men are usually emotionally and sexually attracted to women, and heterosexual women are similarly attracted to men.

Homosexuality: People who are attracted to the same sex are considered homosexual. Men who are attracted to men are often called homosexuals, and women who are attracted to women are often called lesbians.

Bisexuality: Bisexuality refers to an emotional and/or sexual attraction to both men and women. Some people define their bisexuality differently - they may be attracted to multiple genders, but not necessarily to the same degree or in the same way.

Pansexuality: Pansexual people are emotionally and/or sexually attracted to people of all genders. This can include men, women, and people who identify as non-binary or genderqueer.

Asexuality: Asexuality means an absence of sexual attraction. Asexual people may still have romantic feelings for others, although they may have no desire to express these feelings sexually.

It is important to emphasize that these labels do not perfectly describe everyone. Sexuality is a spectrum and each individual has a unique experience and identity. It is also perfectly OK not to label yourself.

Sometimes people feel pressured to define their sexuality, but it is perfectly normal not to be sure. Sexual orientation can be fluid, and it's OK to give yourself time and space to figure out what works for you.

Why is it important to talk about sexual orientation? Because self-awareness and honesty about who you are can help you find your own path to happiness. In addition, openness and education helps break down stigmas and create a future where everyone is accepted as they are.

Regardless of your sexual orientation, you deserve to find love and contentment in your life. Your sexual orientation does not define you; it is part of who you are. By getting to know ourselves, we can better feel where we are in our relationships, our desires and our life trajectories.

On this journey of self-discovery and acceptance, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner(s), whether you are looking for advice, support, or just someone to listen. Sexuality is a complex and personal topic, but it is something that affects everyone.

Acknowledging your sexual orientation can be a liberating and enlightening process. Remember that it is OK to ask questions, to feel confusion, to take time to figure it out. The most important thing is to be yourself, and that is something we can all celebrate.